Scared of first day of grade 9?

Question

there is a rumor about me being g*y and I'm already scared of first day so now I'm going to be pressed on this all day and maybe impede my friend making. how should i deal with this

Answer 1

i think its  BIT early for u to b g*y . i kno tell ur new mates u have a girlfriend, and that ur g*y  or just get a real gf and tke pictass xD aww

hey im 14 i live in uk but what grade would i b in im going in to year 10 :S

Answer 2

Just dont mention it and act normally. Smile at people, walk with your head held high (if you look down u may seem unconfident or that u are hiding something ) say hello, and ask how their summer went. If someone asks about the rumor, laugh it off and say " I cant believe what people make up these days. Of course its not true" (if it isnt true), or something along those lines. Dont get angry or defensive, or people will think you have something to hide. Just be yourself, and sooner rather then later a new rumor will catch everyones attention and that g*y rumour wont be so scandalous anymore. Plus, maybe people forgot over the summer! If, however, the rumors dont subside or you feel upset by them, tell a teacher in confidence so that he or she can put a stop to it.

Answer 3

what you can do is try to talk to your friends and maybe some family to see what they can say

if anyone asks you, just simply say "im not g*y " and if it continues, then i would reccomend you talk to a teacher or a counseler if you have any problems

if you dont feel safe talking to any of those 2 you can always write in a journal and give it to your parents to read  

Answer 4

during my grade 9 year a rumor started about me being g*y, but, we had a kid that really acted g*y so the attention was drawn off of me, just tell people its a rumor when they say something about it, and eventually get a girlfriend and itll go away

Answer 5

Well I'm scared of my first day of grade 9 but not for the same reason hehe. My advice to you would be if anyone asks say firmly "No, I'm not g*y." if they ask you again tell them that you already answered and that they should stop bothering you. If it continues talk to one of the teachers that you trust the most, a guidance counselor, your parents, maybe even the principal. And remember that if someone was your friend, or going to be a good friend, that they would believe you if you told them that you weren't. Good luck in high school, I hate when false rumors get spread. Happened in my school to some of my friends.