Scared of misacarriages?

Question

I went thru 2 missed miscarriages last yr when it was 9 wks. both ended up as empty sac with no heartbeat and i had brown discharge everytime i peed.Now, i got pregnant again and abt to reach 12 weeks in afew days..few weeks before until yesterday, i've been vomiting like h**l...but suddenly today, i didn't feel nauseous at all besides i can already accept some food. How ever, i can feel light cramps around my abdominal area without any bleeding and my obgyn had already detected the heartbeat of my baby when i was 8 weeks.

What are the chances of having another miscarry without any blood presence and the heartbeat had been detected?

So anxious and worried...i dont want to lose this baby anymore..

Answer 1

Hi, first off, sorry for your previous miscarriages, i know exactly what you are going through.  I have experienced 2 m/c's since April'08.  1st m/c natural m/c at 5wks (blighted ovumn), bleeding, very mild pains.  I actually fell pregnant again within the same week of this.  Had an early scan at 7wks and saw and heard the heartbeat, however at my 12wk scan i was told it was only measuring 8wks and no longer a h/b, i was devastated, i had no m/c symptons at all except that my pregnancy symptons had all left me a few wks before at which i was told was normal.  

I think regardless of weather or not you have had a previous m/c, every woman panics and worries about this happening.  I would suggest if you are concerned then you request a scan, to ease your mind if nothing else.  2 miscarriages in a row are considered 'normal' and apparently your chances of having a successful healthy pregnancy after this are the same as if you had never miscarried before.  I wish you all the best of luck this time round.

Answer 2

If you are worried go and see your Dr. If it is a miscarrage there is nothing they can do but it will ease your mind. Good luck I know how it feels to miscarry and be afraid durring the next pregnancy.

Answer 3

unfortunately the chances are still there as you have suffered recurrent miscarriages....go and see your doctor and ask to have an ultrasound, i know exactly how you feel i am currently 9 weeks pregnant after having lost one at this stage just 6 monts ago.  I don't think that the fear will go away until you give birth....

good luck and i hope the cramping is just your body adusting to your uterus size