Scared of pregnancy, help =[?

Question

This is really embarrassing but the only other people i can ask are my friends who know nothing about this. I'm not even allowed to HAVE a bf, and if i get pregnant mum will probably disown me. I had s*x with my boyfriend for the first time exactly a week ago. The condom came off so i got a morning after pill. I had to get my 16yr old friend to get it for me cause they wouldnt sell it to me without ID (and geez they're expensive). So that was ok.. But then we had s*x again on Monday and we didnt use a condom but he took it out before he ejaculated.. i think. I asked him if i should get another morning after pill and he said no. Anyway, i shouldve gotten my period by now, at least a few days ago and im scared. I've got a few zits like i usually do before i get my period, so maybe thats a good sign? And if anyone is tempted to say 'if you're gonna do it without protection then face the consequences', don't, i realise what i did was stupid and im very scared right now. I've only got untill tomorrow if i decide to get a pill and after that it will be too late. Help me...

Answer 1

one if you're not allowed to have a boyfriend you are NOT ready to have s*x. but anyway having s*x for the first time can change the cycle of your period. having s*x without a condom theres always a chance of pregnancy but you cannot tell after a week. calm down and if you're so scard about this whole getting pregnant thing dont be having s*x.  

Answer 2

when you said you should have gotten you're period by now...when did you exactly have intercourse? If it was only the other day you should be fine because sperm can only live inside you for 5 days.... and if you was nearly you're period date then you're ovalation dates weeks off.

if you get me!?

anyways, glad to hear you're using something! :) and mistakes happen.... maybe you should go to you're doctor and say look - im doing this and this...can i have the pill.

they'd understand and give you the pill (the one you take everyday) + it should be free for you. depending how old you are?! think it stops @ 18...or when you leave school and get a job...

that way you wont have to fork out 20 quid for the morning after pill.. thats what i paid (dont know if its gone up now like) lol

good luck xx

Answer 3

Even if he DID pull it out before he ejaculated he still released pre-ejaculate, which contains sperm and can get you pregnant. But, taking ANOTHER ecp is not a good idea. The general warnings say not to take it twice in the same month, so you would really need to talk to your doctor about that and see what they think. I got pregnant from pre-ejaculate ON my period, so yea the likely hood of you getting pregnant is kind of high.

Answer 4

- u will hav to take the test.  

Answer 5

Well the morning after pill is something you are not sapose to take more than 3 times I am pretty sure or it will have an affect on getting pregnant in later days. I myself am 17 so i know you are scared. I have taken the morning after pill once, and beleive me it is a scarey feeling when your period doesnt come when it should. BUT "PULLING OUT" does not always protect you, there is a less chance but the precum on the head of a mans p***s also has s***n that can get you pregnant so I sugest taking the pill. ALSO in many states there is a confidentiality program and teen health care you can use, and get on birthcontroll given to you by a doctor of a free clinic, this will be confidential as long as your 16, its a US law. And your parents will never know. HOPE I HELPED! Hun, becareful.

Amanda.

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Answer 6

just to be safe i'd say take the pill

Answer 7

OK - for starters taking the morning after pill repeatedly is VERY bad for you and they will ask you if you have taken one recently.  Please be honest as this could affect your ability to have children in the future.

Secondly, you are and your boyfriend are being highly irresponsible.  Sorry but you do not sound mature or educated enough to be in an adult sexual relationship.

If you pursue this ignorant course of action (which sigh sigh I'm sure you will) at the very least go to the doctor and get yourself on the pill and continue to use condoms.

I would advocate also telling your mum and sitting her down and explaining you want to have a sexual relationship in a mature way but from the sounds of it you are not mature and she will therefore not believe you.

Sorry but you are the absolute classic reason why the legal age limit for people having s*x should be raised and enforced.  You're simply not ready to do this and handle the consequences.

Answer 8

ok here is what you do.

1) go get the morning after pill JUST IN CASE

2) ALWAYS use a condom from now on

3) tell your mum your period pain is really bad and you should go on the contraceptive pill.

i also suggest you tell your mum you have a boyfriend

because she will probably eventually find out and get mad.

good luck!

Answer 9

he took it out before he ejaculated.. i think

i think...?

should i take the pill? and he said no? man if u don't want a baby then take the d**n pill. easy as that.