Scared to death of being pregnant?

Question

Hi, I recently had s*x like a week ago for the first time. I used a condom and made him pull out before he came. So I figured I was relatively safe. However my period is late(although I am having the normal pains and spotting of blood.) and I have been under a lot of stress lately, Such as work, possibility of being pregnant, death in the family and worried about my mom. How do I calm down and deal with the fears thats making my life a living h**l right now?

Answer 1

Your not pregnant most likely.Your freaking your self out.The stress is causing it.Any time you will start andyou will laugh at how bad you freaked yourself out!

Answer 2

calm down, relax...u cant have control over every situation. ur thinking way too hard. things happen, take a break to clear ur mind

Answer 3

ok if your scared then tell u  . has what i beileve moms are for . to always be there when ever you need them . well thats atleast what i think . what ever you do dont tell dad , he might beat you with a stick . lol sike nah j/m but if you are just think of the best for you and your baby and talk to the guy you had s*x with.

Answer 4

The first thing I would do is take a test.  Worrying and fretting doesn't help matters. If you ARE pregnant, denial won't change anything. And if you aren't, you can relax.  

(The odds of being pregnant under the circumstances you describe are pretty low -- you were past your fertile time, and he did wear a condom AND pull out.  But it's not impossible, so test.)

Answer 5

You are most likely late because of stress, it can do a number on your body. Take a test if it will ease your mind. Good luck to you! :-)

Answer 6

It sounds like your high-stress environment is causing your period to be late.  I know it's hard right now, but everything will work itself out.  Just take one day at a time.  If you want to ease your mind, you can take an at home pregnancy test, just to be sure you're not pregnant, though it doesn't sound like you are.  Good luck and best wishes.

Answer 7

Just try to calm down, is there someone you can talk to about all of the stress you are under? If it makes you feel any better go buy a cheap preg. test. (Chances are you are not.) That always made me feel better. Stress can make your period late, very late sometimes. Hope this helps!

Answer 8

Can I tell you how many times before I thought I was pregnant, and then found out I wasn't? I always had a steady boyfriend, or was married, so don't think I am the town s**t, lol!!!! I was psycho on birth control pills no matter how low the hormones. It seemed like when I was stressed like that my period was late as well. Once I allowed myself to have a good cry, my period usually arrived 6 to 24 hours later. I swear once you release the stress through crying, you'll start! Try it.

Answer 9

ok, breathe, sounds to me like its caused by stress. If you are still worried then take a test to ease your mind. Good luck x