Scared to pull f******n back.?

Question

I am 15, almost 16. I never never pulled my f******n back becuase I am too scared. Everytime I sit down and think ok this time i'm gonna do it. I always stop just as I start pulling it back slowly, barely even exposing the head. What can I do to take this fear away?!

Answer 1

Of course you are a little scared because it hurts when you try to pull the skin back.  You have what is called Phimosis.

It is not serious and happens to many kids. You have to stretch the f******n to allow it to be pulled back over the glans (head) when it is hard, erected.

The best way is to stretch the f******n against the hard glans (head), a little bit every day pulling back on it until it hurts a little, but not too hard as to injure the skin. Pulling on it in the shower may be easier for you.

Here's an idea that might help. Before you get it hard and pull the skin, put a few drops of olive oil or baby oil on the head. That will make it slide easier. Do not use soap or shampoo or lotion. They are caustic and burn the tender skin.  

So start by pulling on it a little bit each day and you will notice that soon it will be loose enough to pull back completely.

If you pull the skin back and it gets stuck there, just squeeze the head between your thumb and fingers and it will get soft.  

Answer 2

The exact same thing happens to me,i am 16,when ever i try and pull the skin back,it just wont go back,but i dont try and pull it back everyday,maybe thats the mistake im making and i dont think i clean it enough

Answer 3

there should be a frenulum under the urinary opening running back to the f******n, it's normal in both intact and many cut guys

Answer 4

Kid I have been doing that for 23 years, believe me, do it touch it...You'll find it'll be very sensitive to the touch, but not to worry the more it is exposed & touched eventually it'll become far less sensitive...Trust me!

And as you'll one day realize, sometimes  it'll have a tendency  to retract over time on it's own when you have an erection...So fear not kid.

Answer 5

Just stop being a baby and pull it back. You NEED to! You have to pull i tback to clean it other wise you can get nasty infections and I'm guessing that since you haven't pulled it back yet it prolly smells pretty nasty.

Well first you have to ask yourself WHY you're afraid to pull it back. That's the first step in over coming any fear is knowing why you have the fear in the first place. So why are you afraid to pull it back? If it hurts or it's to tight then just pull it back untill it starts to hurt and then hold it for a few minutes and then let it go and slowly try to work it back like that a few times a day.

-Connor

Answer 6

do it  slowly that what i did i was 12  

Answer 7

just do dont hurt or enythink

and ye i think it normal

Answer 8

what are you scared of?  the absolute worst that will happen is it will feel a bit weird, but thats it

Answer 9

I guess you just have to get over it. Keep trying to pull it back. It will loosen up. And nothing scary will happen if you do it! Pulling the f******n back is completely normal. You really need to relax and just do it. It may be a bit uncomfortable at first, but it's much better to have a retracting f******n.

Harriet

Answer 10

Just do it ,you have to keep it clean under there to keep from getting infection its just good hygeine,tell your mom you want to be circumcised then you wont have to worry about it as much,

Answer 11

Relax that stringy thing is your fraenum it's supposed to be there it's what helps your f******n to return forwards. If it pulls tight when you retract your f******n and hurts stop. Now listen you do not need a circumcision at most you may have to have the fraenum cut by a doctor but the chances are that it will stretch in time just get a warm bath or shower and pull it back slowly and bit by bit it will stretch. ps Don't listen to those people that are telling you that you will get an infection or you will get cancer you have reached 16 without getting infections so why do these people think it will happen now.  the vast majority of people answering your question are America who have not a clue as to what they’re talking about it's amazing how these people live in a country which is almost totally circumcised yet everyone seems to know a horror story about someone’s f******n. Where as I live in England where circumcision is virtually unheard of and none of my friend male and female have never known anyone with a serious problem  

Answer 12

You MUST regularly clean your p***s in order to avoid certain horrific infections.  One potential side effect of failure to wash is known as penile cancer.  Go to google and do an image search for penile cancer and you'll see what I'm talking about.  It's one of the most nightmarish forms of cancer and is especially sad since it's so easy to prevent with daily soap and water.

Also, another poster is right, while it's not for everyone, circumcision is an option.  I was circumcised as a baby and penile cancer is not something I have to worry about.  I've been told that it's really only painful for a couple of weeks and then you'll be back to normal.

Answer 13

firstly relax you have nothing to worry about you wont do no harm to it,the easiest way is to do it in the bath or shower as you need to ease it back to fully wash it or it will start to stink and infection will set in either water or fungal which will be painfull for you and no girl going to come near you  

Answer 14

just do it slowly ..take your time and don't be afraid ..just think about when you will start to be sexually active ..it will pull back when you do penetration right ?

There is also the hygiene problem ..never pulling it back means it's never thoroughly clean..secretion stay under the f******n..so say to yourself that it's totally natural to do it and go slowly ...oh and you might want to add a little lube so it doesn't hurt .

Answer 15

I PULLED MINE BACK THE OTHER DAY AND SOME SWEETCORN POPPED OUT

Answer 16

you must be smelling by now so you have to get hold of it and wash it I was taught how to wash behind my f******n when i was a little lad by my grandmother who in her non to gentle way used to pull it back and give it a good wash with a lot of squirming on my part but I learnt you have to keep it clean