Scorpio Guy... Cancer Girl... do I give up? push harder? stick it out?

Question

Okay... so this scorpio and I have been playing this "cat & mouse" game for a few months now. We've hung out, gone out, been intimate, etc. I REALLY like him. We had dated, but it started getting serious, and we both backed off... (scorpio fear of getting close I think) We have hung out in a group setting more recently... went camping, all hung out for my birthday, etc. Well, we haven't been slept together in almost 4 weeks. While camping this weekend, he DID sleep next to me and cuddle up on me... and we've hung out more often in the last 4 weeks than before. So, recently, it seems nice that he wants to hang out and do things OTHER than sleep together... But... I'm just not sure. He says things to tease me, tries to make me jealous, always stares at me, and smiles at me... but seems to pull back if I come on too strong. What gives? Am I over-analyzing it?

Answer 1

Stick it out, b/c the odds are that he is still questioning if he wants to commit (as you said). However, if this Scorpio is really serious about you (which, how you describe your relationship makes it seem like it's not too deep yet...), he will become very jealous and he will want you all the time. (okay, so that might be a bit of an exaggeration...).

He definitely likes you, and he definitely find you attractive. Those are givens. I think you two should just talk about it, because it seems like he is on the verge of deciding if he wants to make you his object of desire, or if he still wants to follow his Scoprio ways. Scorpios are innately attractive, meaning that they have this charm that draws in any lady or man. They are also very open when talking about matters of...intimacy. I think if you just keep on being yourself and if you show him you have an unwavering devotion to him, then he will turn and you two will realize how much fun you have with each other.

Now I'm not guaranteeing anything, b/c everyone is different and sometimes people are not as they seem, but from what you described you two are very close.

Plus, unless I said this already, Scorpio and Cancer are super compatible, so it's no wonder you two attracted in the first place!

Hope it works out!

-Pisces2222

Answer 2

You know it's weird... cuz when I got with my Scorpio he was all over me.  None of this cat and mouse game that they are so known for playing.  He gave and gave and gave... so much attention, so much affection, so much love... he told me before I told him.  For 3 years he's been that way towards me.  Not a harsh word from his mouth.  Then, he got hurt.  That's when the cat and mouse games started.  That's when the mean things were said... so maybe you're dealing with someone who's already been hurt, and then you'll have to deal with that baggage when you end up together.  And I don't know if Scorpio's ever let past hurts go and heal.  I'm still in the midst of it with my husband.  I guess we'll see.  All I'm saying is that... if these games are already there, I'm sure they'll drive you crazy again in the future, and then you'll end up posting the same concerns again.  Scorps are hard to live with when there's baggage... so think twice now that you're not in too deep.

Answer 3

Well, it seems like he’s preparing to make his move, but needs a bit more time. Or perhaps he can sense how you feel and likes to play his little game.



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Answer 4

scorpios are very tricky in a relationship. but if you really want it to work I would say keep going. try playing a few games with him. scorpios are passionate and wouldn't want to lose you to anyone else if you are given the chance.

also, scorpios are d**n s**y. I wish I didn't let mine go, but my aries ways got too fed up with the games of a scorpio. but I think a cancer such as yourself will have a bit more patience (as you have shown... dealing with this for months!)

keep going, and try not to over-analyze, even though I'm being quite hypocritical by saying that. that's all I did when I was with a scorpio. they keep you guessing.