Scorpio men please help!

Question

I've had a rocky relationship with a scorpio for a little over a year now (his venus is in capricorn) im a leo (venus in cancer). its been full of harmony but he tends to disappear sometimes, and when he comes back its like theres been no time gap between us. so I just let him know id rather be a friend and not be sexually connected anymore just to protect my vulnerable feelings...he said nothing about it and insists on seeing me tomorrow! (which would be my bday but he hasn't mentioned anything to me about it yet) so maybe he forgot or he's planning something? why doesn't he tell me where I stand or give me any kind of answer/bad or good? any help is great!

Answer 1

Scorpios do need their own little singular space, which could be the reason your partner throws up those disappearing acts!

I am sure he knows about your birthday and is planning a good time with you. It is not surprising to find Scorpios not reveal their judgment of your standing in their lives!

The fact that he keeps coming back to you is a good enough indication that he probably loves you!

:))

Happy Birthday in Advance, by the way!

Answer 2

I don't know what exactly to say. I'll just say this, there are three types of people to us

1- Those who we don't know, or know on the surface, we may even spend time with them but we don't let them in, not a friend or a foe

2 - those who we despise and have as enemies, and will be disgusting towards

3 - those who we love, and once we love them we will never ever ever go back on it. even if it is painful to keep on loving, and it is not returned, it will not matter.

I too shy away for  long amounts of time and don't talk to anyone. I feel it invigorating when I come back because its like a fresh start. This behavior is actually common to Scorpios and its known as the phoenix archetype, where we die and give ourselves a inner rebirth.

The point is, if he ever did love you, he still does, and as soon as you two start hanging out again it will be apparent. You just have to make a decision to trust him or not. It is all or nothing for us, so you have to make an all or nothing decision here.

PS, about the plans, we love to keep people in mystery. It's invigorating as h**l. My guess is he knows full well its your birthday. I doubt his answer will ever come in words, and if you try and force it from his lips he will withdraw.

If I could give anyone advice on how to love a scorpio I'd say this: Never try and read them.

Answer 3

Put aside all the astrology stuff because that doesn't say much of anything.  What I get here is that the dude is just a flake.  What's with these disappearing acts?  Perhaps you and he would work out better as friends rather than as lovers.  It's possible that you're not the only love interest in his life.

Answer 4

Although I'm not a man, (lol) I am a scorpio. Despite what most people say about scorpios being s***s, that is only one type of scorpio. I had a question about how people felt about scorpio and they all described them in three different ways. There is a kind, giving type, a whorish, manipulative type, and the curious, calm type.

Anyways, I believe that your bf is a loyal scorpio. (Yes, we have a good trait). It sounds like he is planning something for your b-day. Leo and Scorpio aren't that compatable so I've heard. Scorpios aren't the answering type.

Here: http://zodiac-signs-astrology.com/zodiac...  If you need help figuring him out, this is the best site!

This is some more on you guys' compatability and details about how you can work your relationship out: http://www.findyourfate.com/compatibilit...

Scorpios are some of the most difficult people to understand (and I hear that from everyone) so don't get your hopes up! <3