I am having a huge issue with getting together a seating arrangement.
The problem is this--- my guest list was only 40 people. My fiances was 100 people. Also, we have several different "Groups" of people- coworkers, neighbors, old friends, new friends, my family, his family.
It is a pretty casual wedding- outdoor park ceremony, BBQ buffet indoors, that sort of thing.
I wanted to NOT do arranged seating- just to let people sit where they are comfortable, and withi whom they are comfortable. Also, if someone sits with someone they wouldn't usually sit with, it would be great for guests to meet each other and mingle.
I am planning on having a game at the tables- I found these fabulous cards that ask questions about the bride & groom- "How long have you known them?" -- "How did you meet the bride & groom?"-- "What is your funniest memory of the bride & groom?"
I think that game would be a LOT more fun if people were sitting with people they didn't know all that well. Also, will people not come in and sit somewhere on their own, and the tables would fill up as people sit wherever they choose?? I am sure everyone would get along pretty well, there are no guests who do NOT like each other that we are aware of.
On the flip side, my M-I-L is insisting on a seating plan. That side of the family likes to sit together, and kind of stick to themselves, which is what I DONT want!
However, how do I go about making a seating plan? Just in case? The wedding is in 3 weeks!!
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