Second part! What if someone you love totally changed in appearance,but had the same "spirit"?

Question

Would you still love them the SAME?

I guess what I'm trying to ask is ...which is more important in "love"...the spirit or the body?

(I know that this isn't a TOTALLY paranormal question..but it kinda is a little paranormal..with the spirit part.)

Answer 1

I think that would depend on the person. My granddaughter changed totally when she got older, but I'm still so attached to

her. Can read her like a book. I kept her until she was 7, and after that she spent many a summer and school break with me. I still love her-so much that the change is hurting me as well as her.

Wanda

Answer 2

If it were the same personality I suppose I would find that person attractive for the same reasons I found her attractive in her other manifestation.  If her looks were radically different then it might make a difference, but there's also the chance that she will be much better looking too. :)

Answer 3

isnt that wat happens to all of us???  dont we all change when we grow older???  we get fatter...  wrinkled... grayer... stooped over....  but lots of couples still love each other an stay together till death...

Answer 4

There was a movie like this. I think it was "Heaven Can Wait." But say your loved one came back as the opposite gender. Would you go g*y? I wouldn't!

Answer 5

id stay with my girl if she changed, as long as she was still who she was inside

Answer 6

love him same you love him before as he could now be more  gentle to you and beautiful.

best of luck!

Answer 7

You're talking about 'kindred spirits' or 'soul mates'. If you believe in reincarnation, then in theory - what you describe happens all the time. We feel bonded to the spirit that feels familiar and comforting. And sometimes we feel that upon meeting a person we don't yet 'know'.