Seeing your ex on a night out?

Question

I am likely to see my ex in the next couple of weeks for he first time since we broke up, as we both tend to go out in the same places and on the same night. We have split amicably and he's asked me to be his friend while he's working through his 'commitment issues'... and we are still talking occasionally on facebook/MSN. I am happy with this situation, am hoping to get back with him in the future and have decided not to pursue the casual s*x route (as asked in one of my previous questions!).

I'm just wondering then bearing this in mind how I should act when I see him? How is it best to behave, should I approach him or let him come to me? I want to come across as the mature woman I am lol!!

Thanks :)

Answer 1

I suggest you find somewhere else to hang out.  Its best all round to make a fresh start and alcohol mixed with an ex and people is not a good environment for people to act with maturity.

Answer 2

let him come to you dont wave at him or anything let him do the running.

just carry on your night as normal whether he is there or not

Answer 3

Be natural and just be yourself.

Answer 4

if u see him u alright? in a sad kinda voice and ask him if he wants a drink, theres not really anymore you can do

Answer 5

Hair jewellery is always good, if i were you I'd wear pink, something ankle length (more is less) with matching wellington boots.

Answer 6

when you see him say hello straight away. Do whatever it is when you go out. Dont flirt overtly but still flirt. say good bye when you leave. Maintain the moral high ground.

If he tries it on knock him back. Treat him mean and keep him keen, we love it.

Answer 7

The only thing that could warrant you two getting back together is the circumstances under which you split up and if he feels he wants to ! You like him but don't try anything until he drops a hint!

Answer 8

well i met up with my ex 4 months ago by accident. after not seing her for a year.

she basicaly grabbed me and started kissin me.

now were back together!

go for him again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Say hi and move on. IF he does not want your attention there are pleny of other men out there that do.