Self-esteem problem!?

Question

well yeah i have a low self-esteem problem.. i feel really bad about the way i look even tho ppl tell me all the time that i am so pretty. cuz well yeah my face is pretty but i hate my body =/

i am really skinny.i wear a size 0 or 1, 34c, and no booty but i dont think i look annorexic either! but idk i just dont like how i am so skinny! what can i do?

Answer 1

pl check

http://myblogonbeauty.blogspot.com/2006/...

http://myblogonbeauty.blogspot.com/2006/...

Answer 2

I felt the same way in high school.  A few years later I took the plunge and entered a local beauty pageant.  Even though I did not win I felt much better about myself for just doing it.

I have won 9 pageant titles in the two years since that first one.

If you need some help to find a small pageant please email me.  I can even find one with no swimsuit if you would like.

Answer 3

its really odd how you have the body that so many people want to obtain and even die for  but my (male) cousin is like you too he skinny eats ALOT and never gains an ounce

it has to do with a lot of things fast metabolism genes nature nurture

theres just some things that are in your dna

if i were you , you sound very young by the way , i would try everyday to be proud of who i am and not so much based on looks either since you sound like a teen or tween these are gonna be what seem to be the worse years of your life concerning your looks , boys, and the like

i promise you , you will be fine and trust me if your that size and thats how god made you AND YOUR HEALTHY at that size then feel fortunate

ive been fat all my life and i never had a chance to be a normal teen and although i didnt want to be a size 0 becuz im like 5'9 anyway i know that i wood like to be able to eat what i want and not worry

Answer 4

I'll let you in on a secret. Everybody has some kind of self-esteem problem about the way they look or how smart they are or something. It's all in the way you approach it though. Ignoring the problem or pretending it doesn't exist is usually not the best course of action for most problems, but for self-esteem that's pretty much your only choice. 'Cause let's face it, those life-changing moments that make everything better in life happen in the movies mostly, and most people never have the things happen to them that they desperately want or need.

I know this is the last thing you want to hear, but it really is the truth. You just have to bear it best you can and change your outlook. Change your attitude to something positive, even if you don't feel that way. You gotta fake it until you make it as they say.

I have struggled with self-esteem myself, so I know trying to change your outlook is like trying to stop the sun from shining; it just doesn't happen.

I have been pretty awkward and socially inept most of my life, and not the best looking guy either. I still struggle with those problems everyday. But over the past 2-3 years I have changed a lot about myself, and it all starts with attitude. You MUST have a good attitude about yourself.

As someone who has gone through their own body issues, (I was less than 5 feet tall when I turned 16, and I was short all of my life as a child) I know how you're feeling. It is beatable, you just have to believe in yourself. It sounds corny I know but it is totally true. Best of luck to you.