Self satisfying myself while my husband is gone in the military?

Question

Well, my husband is going to be gone for the next four months for training. I feel very confused... I have extreme sexual urges right now, and would never in a million years think of being with someone else. I want to satisfy myself, but my husband has requested of me not to watch p**n, I'm having a hard time using my imagination, and don't want to do wrong by him, but at the same time, I'm frustrated! How horrible is it of me to use something visual to help me, even though he's asked me not to? *Sigh*

Answer 1

maybe your husband should have welded you into a chastity belt!

there is NOTHING, NOTHING, NOTHING wrong with watching p**n; he should consider himself lucky to have such an honest woman, and you should know when not to cave to his ridiculous demands

Answer 2

I dont think its fair of him to ask you not to use any kind of visual stimulation because thats how most men do it!  Even though he did ask you not too use watch p**n I think it is better than going out and finding another man any day.  He will be a lot less mad at you for doing that than if you cheated on him.  Guys always have such a hard time when the shoe is on the other foot.

Answer 3

Uh hes in themilitary and away, and a man.. and hes not gonna jack off? RIGHT. Soooo .... he probably just wants you to save yourself for him so he can ravish you when he returns. Which will be great, but if your having urges. go down to the lovers store or adam&eve.com and buy yourself a toy. Than use it on him and let him use it on you when he gets home. Im sure he wont ask you again to not touch yorself. HAVE FUN!!

Answer 4

What he doesn't know can't hurt him : ) and that is stupid of him to request, it's not like you are cheating on him.  

Answer 5

ok have a nice relaxing bath  - turn the phone off lock the doors.

once you are dry go somewhere and lie down

run your fingers down your body finding places that are nice to touch

play with your b*****s if that gives you an o****m

now start on the genitals

be calm for a while

then if you feel the ultimate urge

penetrate yourself and start the rough stuff whilst picturing you and your husband enjoying intercourse! there do that when you want to!

If you want , get your self some toys and have fun girl!

Answer 6

that's just pure selfishness. Ask the man which he'd rather have- a faithful wife at home who enjoys a little sexual stimulation via watching a p**n and hitting the C**t with the vibrator, or an unfaithful wife that gets banged from the neighbor. Tell him to quit being selfish. It's not like he won't be rubbin one off during his 4mth training.

Answer 7

He's probably watching/looking at p**n in the military, that stuff is rife there. It's not fair that you can't and he can, go for it.

Answer 8

Jeez, sounds like your man is harsh. I guess if you can't watch p**n the next thing is to find a nice toy or read trashy romance novels.

Answer 9

it's not horrible at all. it is human desire to feel the way you feel. getting horny is perfectly normal. I say do it and do it often ! double-clicking your mouse so to speak !!

Answer 10

its completely acceptable for you to use pornography and in my opinion quite unacceptable for him to ask you anything otherwise. i think you should inform him of this, and purchase your "visual aids". do not decieve him about this, but dont let it become a fight either.

Answer 11

Let your fingers work magic.  I am sure his are doing the same for him.

Answer 12

he asked you not to watch p**n...or not to watch his p**n?

c'mon how is he gonna find out

Answer 13

Cucombers are in season and very good satisfactory allternative.  Find his  shape or viberate

Answer 14

How exactly is this a military question?

Answer 15

If your husband's requested this, then it wouldn't be right to go ahead and do it.  Sorry, but hey--your husband's made a lot of sacrifices too...

Answer 16

At least your are into visuals only and not touching. That request from your husband  is strange. Did you ask him why? Why do you need visuals when you have todays new toys to do the job. Don't ever cheat on your husband you will never forgive your self.  

Answer 17

I see no problem with it.  It's a fantasy world, he's your fantasy in the real world...

Answer 18

just do it anyways, he wont know

Answer 19

My husband was deployed for 13 months... I didn't use a visual for a long time, as I was requested to do the same, but I had asked him to send me visuals of himself, and he never did, so eventually, i ended up finding my own on the internet. It was only every so often, it wasn't like I was an addict at all, but sometimes you just need a little imaginative boost. Nothing wrong with that. I feel your pain, and I say go for it. He will understand... at least my husband did.  

Answer 20

Go to yahoo.com, click on the images link above the search bar and type in nude Brad Pitt. That ought to help you out a bit!!

Answer 21

its not he`s asking too much of you

Answer 22

JUST WATCH p**n HE WILL NEVER KNOW

Answer 23

it's just four months.  if he's going without it why not try to also? and if you feel like you just can't wait...then ask him. but then again if my husband told me not to watch p**n he'd get the one finger salute cuz I do what I want...lol

Answer 24

Even though you cant think of anything keep trying. Think of things that you would like to do with your hubby when he gets back. That might help a bit.