Yesterday, my mother found out from the grandchildren that my sister sometimes sells their toys she gives them as gifts. We always knew she did this, but assumed that she sold them after they grew out of them. Now we know that she sells them before they even get them out of the package. The toy really concerns myself and my mother is a digital art studio that my mother got for the 5 year old for Christmas. It was rather expensive and my mother asked my sister before she bought it, if it was O.K to buy for him. My mother even asked a month ago if he like it. My sister told her that they hadn't installed it and didn't mention that it was already sold. They don't have a lot of money, but we know that they can afford a time share so I don't think the money was necessary for groceries etc.
I think that my mother should talk to my sister about it, but she is too upset. Then I think the children should receive modest presents and then any extra money should go into their college fund or a fund to send them to summer camp.
This concerns me too, since I don't want my presents being sold on EBAY either.
Is is as rude as we think to sell toys that are unused? If so how would you respond?
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