Separated for a year and now living together before I move?

Question

My wife and I have been separated for a year. I had decided about 3 months ago to move out of state, we have children together, but they understand what is going on, we are getting along really well, I intend on moving within a month or so, she wanted the divorce, she moved out a year ago because she claimed that I was a liar, later it was that she was not attracted to me anymore, its been all BS, no infidelity on my end, or lying, I am at somewhat of a crossroads, I think that moving away, will wake her up, in the past I always would say this is it and then stick for the kids first and foremost, this time, I just have had it, and now she is really being nice, I don't get it.... any input here??????

Answer 1

Well... I know there is probably more to the story than you can type in your 1 paragraph question :)  But from what you've said, it sounds like you should definitely move on.  She doesn't appreciate you, and it sounds like you are waiting for her to take you back (like the decision making is all in HER hands).  But I would hope that you are not moving JUST to get her to "wake up", but instead to actually move on for a better life for yourself.?

Answer 2

I am not sure what you are asking here? Do you want to get back together with her or are you asking if you should move? If moving is the question then do it and get on with your life as it is to short to wait in the wings so to speak.  

Answer 3

You say you are getting along really well and then you say you have had it? Who did she say is a liar? Probably best you move out of state for the good of all. Your moving will not have an "awakening" effect on your wife.

Answer 4

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.Let her see what she had all along and what she will be missing when you're gone.If you don't leave  she gets  to play on  both sides of the fence.Make her choose a side.