I have posted many things on here in the past, but I always get the same answer "dump him" Well he SAYS he loves me and always wants to be with me, but his actions and the things he says don't comply!
First off we had an apartment together, and had been looking for a cheaper one while we saved up for a foreclosure home, but then he invited over the wrong ppl. to rent out the other room, and we had to leave. SO we only had like one night to do it, and we ended up at his mothers house. I thought we would only be here for a week while we found a new place... 3months later, we are still here!
I HATE it! It's nice of them, but the father is ALWAYS trying to kick us out, and those are my favorite days, 'caz I hope he will come to his senses and let us leave!
He thinks I "don't love him" Because I want to leave, and thinks I'm going to move on with my life somewhere else!
I'm 20 years old! I do NOT want to be living with my own parents never mind someones Else's!
On top of this, we are at the end of our foreclosure search, since we found someone to help us, but now a new problem, he doesn't think that while he's gone for 2 months he will have enough saved up, which is TOTAL news to me 'caz I thought he had like $6,000 saved for while he's away(in jail, which is his excuse for not renting a place and staying here) he KNOW"S I hate it here.
there is only one bathroom that I can use, and his brother (23) can't pee straight! OR clean up pubic hairs, and the father is always in there, 'caz the mom wants her own bathroom.
Lastly the time he would be away is the time when my sisi, mother niece, thanks giving, christmas, and new years fall, so I was logically thinking of just staying with them for those two months (up north in cali) BUT when my bf heard this he went BALLISTIC!! He wants me to stay in his PARENTS place so that I can visit him, and he thinks my going up north will automatically mean I will cheat on him (which is one of his favorite subjects! Even though he has NO reason to assume I would even think of doing this!)
He's so pissed! And all he wants to do is have s*x, talk about s*x, or jack off when I won't give it to him, EVERY 5 MINUTES!! I'm so not kidding! I don't have much of a s*x drive, I would rather do important things.
He always thinks that I'm going to do something bad like the girl in whatever movie we are watching, even when the girl is SINGLE, and I don't ever go out, and when we go any where it is together!
He doesn't want me to go outside by myself, and when I told him I wanted to start dance classes, he flipped, that he wasn't invited,and I told him I wanted to get a job, he told me I couldn't keep, one and complains that I don't have one, but would rather complain than me actually have one.
ON TOP of that my family doesn't like the fact that I left him for a month, and that he is going to jail which I don't like either! But he AWAYS expects to be invited up to see them with me, which I do NOT want, or understand! He was furious when I went over to the east coast for two weeks to see two of my cousins getting married!
I don't ever care what he is doing, 'caz I know he's not doing anything, but he is always finding a reason to be mad, and complains we don't have s*x like we used to, but why would I?
I don't know what to do or think any more, and he gets PISSED if I'm not spending all my time complimenting him, and worshiping him!
Is this normal at all?
I KNOW this is long, but every thing's ina nut shell, and he will read thins because he s insecure, and be upset, I am SURE of it!
Please answer!
*thank you*
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