Serious Question... I'm so scared the Holy Spirit has left me.. Does he or will he..?

Question

Okay, i'm a 22yr old who has lived a sinful life up until a year ago i gave my life to Christ.. When i did so the Holy Spirit came to me and guided my life.. Well about 2 months ago i was dating this guy and was praying really hard about what God wanted me to do in this relationship...

I felt like i was told this guy would be the one i married.. So, after a while this guy moved off for work and we ended the relationship.. He couldn't wait for me to have s*x which i'm not losing anything by that.

But, since then i've been kinda worried that i might be listing to the wrong feelings like if it's me or the Holy Spirit..

So i don't know if i commited the unforgivoiable sin or not.. I'm so scared ... I love God and want him to lead my life, i'm just so scared that he left me.. Does God leave you... Did i turn my back on Christ.. I sure don't want to.. I love God with all my heart i feel like i've really done something wrong...

Answer 1

I feel that maybe you were listening to yourself.  I'm not trying to rude.  It has happened to me before.  If God wants this man in your life ask Him to take control.  God will make it happen.  ok,  were you sinning with this guy at the time?  Chance are, it was the message wasn't from God.  God has not left you.  He will never forsake you.  One more thing, make sure that the guy that does come into your life has the same love for God that you do. God bless you.

Answer 2

You did nothing wrong...except put your faith, trust and live your life according to your imaginary friend.  

Answer 3

Following deities that refuse to show themselves can leave you feeling a bit abandoned..

Answer 4

That's not the unforgivable sin.

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You're young, I'm sure you'll find someone with your morals, if you keep looking.

Answer 5

Once you're saved, you're always saved, and it is impossible to lose salvation (1 John 5:13).

The Holy Spirit never leaves a saved believer.  In the book of John, Jesus said that He sends the Holy Spirit to be with us, and He (the Holy Spirit) will be with us FOREVER  :)

So, are you saved?  The ONLY WAY to be saved, is by you believing the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

The Gospel of Jesus Christ is this: The truth is that the only way to be saved and to get into heaven and avoid being sent to eternal h**l is by believing in faith alone that Jesus, who is God, died for our sins on the cross and rose from the dead (1 Corinthians 15:1-4). Believe this and you are saved!

Please pray now: "Jesus, please forgive me of my sins. I believe that You died on the cross for my sins and You rose from the dead. Thank You for eternal life!" You will be in heaven with Him forever when you die. :)

Answer 6

According to Deuteronomy 31:6, "He will not leave you nor forsake you." The only unforgivable sin is the blaspheme of the Holy Spirit. That means turning your back on God until the day you die or He returns (whichever comes first).

We all struggle with sin and will continue to do so until we see Jesus in person. When you sin, stop. Pray. Repent. Ask for forgiveness. Isaiah 1:18 says, "Though your sins are like scarlet, They shall be as white as snow; Though they are red like crimson, They shall be as wool."

Jesus tells us the most important commandment is to "love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind..." (Luke 10:27) If you love God, everything else falls into place. He will never leave you.

Answer 7

All that God requires is that you love Him with all your heart, soul, mind, strength. If you feel that you are leading a depraved life, ask for forgiveness and come to Him with a clean conscience. God doesn't abandon you. Rather He'd very much like to have a personal relationship with all of us.

Answer 8

The only reason that the Holy Spirit will leave your heart is if you tell him to leave you. If you tell the Holy Spirit that you want nothing to do with it anymore.

Answer 9

God is crtainly not going to leave you over this!  Okay, so you thought the Spirit said this guy is the one for you.  But you were praying for God's direction in this relationship, and the guy left.  That seems like a pretty definitive answer, to me, compared to "I thought".

Just pray for God to bring to you the one he wants you to be with, whoever it is.  And ask Him to prepare you to be the wife for the guy he's going to bring you.  Don't be in a big rush to get married!  Wait on the Lord.  Serve Him, and wait for his real answer.  Also pray that when He does bring this guy, you're going to be alert and know for sure that he's the one.  No doubts.  Who knows?  It might even be the same guy.... (but don't count on it!)

Answer 10

Maybe you should not focus so much attention on yourself.  Try serving God by serving others and making this world a better place.  All these other things will be added unto you.

Answer 11

If he couldn't wait for you to have s*x, you know it wasn't Gods plan for you to be married. Trust me God is sooo excited that you've excepted him as your lord and savior, he will not leave you unless you want him too. He's still working on you, don't give up. He's bringing you an even better guy than you thought possible. One that loves what you stand for and believe in.

Answer 12

I find it helps letting an atheist touch you

Answer 13

Hey Girl,

I've been a Christian since 1980 and was given a lot of wrong/fearful advise and it's only been the last five years that I feel I have learned the trurth about the Bible's teachings. The unforgivable sin is to not give credit to the Holy Spirit when you are called to testify before the Anti-Christ, so, no, you have not committed the unforgivable sin.  And Christ never leaves us it's us that puts him out of our lives, but the good news is he will always win you back

Answer 14

You just got your feelings to lead you and thought it was God's will. That is not a unusal thing to happen. If you went against God written word then you would have some basis to know you did something wrong. Either way you did not go against the Holy Spirit. You have no reason to feel condemed since you did not commit any sin.  

Answer 15

From  Our Lady of Medjugorje  [Mary Mother of GOD

“You be those who will convert and, with your life, will witness, love, forgive and bring the joy of the Risen One into this world.“ Everybody needs conversion. It is a life-long process. A true conversion is meeting God. Only those who have meet God in flesh may bear witness to the encounter. Encounters with people often remain superficial, while an encounter with God takes place in the depths of man’s heart and soul leaving a mark on the man as a whole. Every time when a man does not love, he needs conversion. Every time when a man is not faithful to the words of Jesus, he needs conversion.

Any conversion is a two-step process. The first step is that at least once in our life we must kneel before Jesus and tell him from the depth of our heart and soul: Jesus, I choose you, I want to leave my old life behind, I want to be free from all my sins and go with you purified. This is the fundamental decision for God. The second step is to question oneself over and over again every night: Have I obeyed God’s commandments to the fullest, what can I do better when meeting people, how can I love Church more. Only by taking these two steps may we walk up the path of our spiritual life in the right way. Our Lady has called us to conversion so many times.  She calls us to be

Answer 16

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, lean not to your own understand, acknowledge him in all your ways and he will direct your paths.

Remember, The Holy Spirit has promised to never leave you.  He is your guide, he will lead you, protect you and talk to.  

No one is perfect.

Praise the Lord each and every day, thank him for his goodness, praise Him because he is such an awesome God.  Don't let your heart condemn you.  Praise God for his Greatness and his forgiveness.

Say this prayer that Jesus gave us.  and don't worry.  The lord will not condemn you if you confess your sin in the name of Jesus, and live according to His Word.

Our Father, who are in heaven, hallowed be thy name

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth, as it is in Heaven

Give us this day, our daily bread and FORGIVE US OUR TRESPASSES AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINSTS US.

Lead us not into temptation, but

Deliver us from evil,

For thine is the Kingdom

The Power

And the Glory

Forever,

Amen.

Say the prayer and meditate upon its meaning.

REMEMBER,

God has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power love and self control.

Agape

Answer 17

repent ,know matter what jesus said he will never leave you. sounds like the holy spirit is convicting you of something ( by the way that's his job) this world has three voices

1. christ

2. satan

3. self  

many christians get self and GOD mixed up. read proverbs 3;5-6

Answer 18

God doesn't turn his back on anybody. From the sounds of it, you haven't turned our back on him either. Just keep praying about it and you will eventually see what you need to do.

Answer 19

Impossible. The only barrier is in your mind. Release your resistance and the spirit will again be clear and powerful to you.

Answer 20

You have done nothing wrong. God does not give up those that are already His. Relationships are very hard to listen to God about because our own heart is screaming so loudly for what it wants. Stay on the path and move on to the next chapter of your life. Look at what some of the greatest people of the Bible did wrong, and God still used them and took them in. You are not capable of running out of God's reach.

Answer 21

I have a similar situation...I lived an ungodly life for years and then became saved.  It is important to understand that spiritually, we are babies.  And times that we feel such turmoil and grief we are actually going through a growth spurt.  I will ask a question to God and then wonder, "Was that me or God answering?"  Sometimes I think it is just as important that we ask the right questions.  And then the answers become very, very clear.  God knows your heart.  Don't become discouraged, this is probably a situation that will strengthen your relationship with Him.  Read Mark and Matthew in the Bible.  It is Jesus speaking and many answers to your questions can be found there.  

Answer 22

He's still there. That's why you feel the guilt. Confess what you feel guilty of to Jesus and he will forgive you. Her promised he would. You have offended the Holy Spirit perhaps but he has not left you. The bible says he will never leave you or forsake you. Don't let the Devil tell you a lie. Keep walking with him. He is with you.

Answer 23

The bible says that we are "sealed with the Holy Spirit" when we turn to Christ.

He never leaves you.

He can seem far away when we aren't living as we should.

He speaks to us through the Bible.

To know it's Him speaking read the Word.

Answer 24

The fact that yiu are concerned about whether or not the Holy Spirit has left you proves that you have NOT commited the "unforgivable sin".

If you had, you would not be concerned one bit.  God loves you and will never forsake you.  We have all turned our backs on God at some time or another, but He never turns His back on us.

Peace,

tman