Serious Question of my life!!!?

Question

I used to be topper of my class till my 10th grade but suddenly unfortunate things started to happen in my life...My parents are almost certain to get divorced (after 12th)...I am sick and tired of both...i feel lonely in my home(no brothers or sisters)...parents are insensitive towards me...only talk to friends...havent left my home city for 6 yrs...feel bit nerdy..also i am getting into trouble lately...plus i hv funk in my class 11 exams.i am repeating class 11..i hv started to drink as well as smoke...all my future dreams are almost shattered....Life is like h**l to me lately..nothing is going right for me.....What should i do to secure my future ??

Will really appreciate your help...Tnx in advance

Answer 1

Get therapy because your problems will distracted from alot good things that may come your way and you won't be able to see it because you'll be so absorb by the problems you have with your parents

Answer 2

Focus on strengths not weaknesses. Google a short piece called Desiderata. It should help you a lot with the issues you have raised. Pick yourself up off the floor & get on with doing positives rather than just admitting defeat. You have a choice in life - get up and do or let others wreck your life. Regards. UK

Answer 3

Get counseling in your community to save your life. You can turn your situation as a great learning experience for your future life to do the right things for yourself and others.

Answer 4

try not to think about your parents and have more relationships with your friends

i mean talk about this problem with your friends

also you can find some friends in the internet, who have nearly same problems, and share your problems to each other

going out with friends would also be good