Serious answers only please?

Question

i found out my sister who just turned 20 is a smoker what can i do to get this off my mid i dont want to tell my parents or her that i know

Answer 1

I suggest you just forget about it and let it go. Your sister is old enough to know what she is doing and i am sure she is very aware of the health problems she might have. You have to let her lead her own life.

Answer 2

most of the time you can't do anything but wait for the individual to hit rock-bottom to realize their problem, because you can't tell someone to "give me that cigarette or give me that joint, they'll just pick-it back up when your not looking. Just set a good example or ask who ever she looks up to, to give some realistic advice...  

Answer 3

While I understand your concern for your sister's health, this really is her business, and only her business, since she is an adult.  She is old enough to know the consequences of the poor decisions she is making, but chances are, she will continue to make them anyways, and telling your parents is not going to stop that.  If you feel you MUST do something, then talk to her, and tell her you're concerned.  Tell her that you love and care for her, and don't want her to end up like your grandmother.  

Answer 4

she is 20 it is her own choice.

heaps of people casually smoke. i had my 1st and 15 but never did it again cause its kinda gross.

let your sister make her own mistakes but you cant influence her if she doesn't know you know

Answer 5

Just leave it alone.

It is her decision to smoke - and you can only tell her your feelings.

If your parents don`t know , it is not up to you to tell them.

This is a personal decision from your sister, and simply put, none of your business.

Answer 6

She is an adult, so there isn't anything you or your parents can do.  Don't tell them cause you would just be a tattle tale.  Talk to her and tell her you know.  Tell her that you are disappointed, smoking is bad for her, and that you are worried about her health.  

Answer 7

Mind your own business.

You think that it´s bad?

So you can do better once you reach her age…

She is 20 and full of age; so why don´t you accept her own decisions although they might not be the best for her on the long run.

You can talk with her, but nothing more than that…

Answer 8

Your sister is old enough to know what will happen to her if ever she will continue smoking. i hope you can talk to her and tell her that you love her and afraid that she might get sick if she continue to smoke. she might be hanging on a wrong set of friends.