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Question

I am 20 years old and I have been with my husband since I was 12. We got married when I was 17 and he was 19. We had twin babies when I was 18, a baby girl when I was 19 and now he is doing something very disturbing to me. I have told him that I don't want any more kids, but he insists that we have a big family and says that he lives to make babies.

The part that bothers me is every night we have s*x and he always makes me prop pillows under my bottom and then when he comes inside me he holds my legs in the air and makes me o****m so his sperm gets way up inside me.

(sorry for the detail)

He is a great father and I know he loves me but he will not listen to me when I say no more kids. I may already be pregnant again since he was be doing this to me for almost a month now. I am just being stupid and should I keep having his babies or should I leave him. My family is out of state so I could really use some advice. Thanks!

Answer 1

well i had my first baby at 17 now im 18 an married having another baby an my husband wants another kid in 2 years its all because he is also a BIGG family man, but he understand s that i dont want anymore for like 5 or 6 years anyways you should just sit down with your husband an tell him maybe in a few years you might but not right now(even if you dont plan to have anymore) it might keep him distance for awhile=) Hope that helps hun

Answer 2

If you don't want any more kids, get birth control. There are many different types out there available to women. You can refuse to have s*x too unless he slaps a condom on, that is what I do with my husband. You just have to put your feet down and say NO!

I'm not sure if it's a great reason to leave your husband just because he wants more kids and you don't. But if you feel that it is, then go for it.  

Answer 3

marriage is forever, so don't listen to those who tell you to just leave him. You need to grow up now and tell him that he has to wait. If he is not abusive, of course, and stand your ground. Don't smile or laugh during the conversation to let him know you are serious about not wanting any more. Tell him you just want more time to raise the ones you have now, and later on, if you want more, you will buy a special pillow that raises your butt even more for him!

Answer 4

It's your body.. If you really don't want any more kids...do something about it. Get an IUD implanted or go on the pill. Honestly t hough, if I had told my husband that I don't want to be pregnant anymore and he insisted I get pregnant.. NO MORE s*x!!!!

Answer 5

i have been with my husband from june 2005 when i was 15 and he was 22 and then i got married 10/21/06 and had my baby girl 12/31/06 i am now 19 years old and if i had already had three children and at a young age i would tell my husband to kiss off... i honestly think the way economy is going that what happens if you cant money wise support you children and not to mention that it is selfish to have alot of kids... b/c how are you to cater to all their needs without leaving one of them out children are a blessing but that is wrong of your husband to do i honestly think its alittle psychotic and that you should tell him to stop or you are going to leave him... it's almost like rape.... and move by your family lol!!!

Answer 6

Get on the pill and don't tell him.  If he's a great father, I wouldn't leave him, but he can't force you to get pregnant.  If you don't want more children, then you shouldn't have any.  Both parents need to want it.

You may want to seek therapy.  That is strange that he does that.

Answer 7

Tell him straight out no more kids and go on the pill. he cannot make you have another child if its not what you want.

Answer 8

If hes a good father and he treats you well like doesn't hit you etc. then I would just sit him down and tell him I DONT WANT ANY MORE KIDS. then go on the pill and use condoms until the pill is effective. You say he has been doing it for a month now well your allowing him it seems. so stop having s*x or use protection if you dont want any kids. if he doesnt watn to wear a condom then dont have s*x with him. it sup to you to leave him we dont know his personality towards you etc