Serious question about stds?

Question

I know I shouldn't have done this, I know all about pregnancy and what not. But I've had unprotected s*x with this guy for about a month or so, we don't have it every day usually just on Fridays if we do have it and I know that he has had s*x with other girls. He said that he has never been tested for any std or anything. I never thought about it until a few days ago I started noticing white bumps of my v****a and some brown spots too. I don't know if it could be a std or not. Also, I've been having some discharge that isn't really out of the norm, but I don't know. I'm really scared now, and I don't know how to tell my mom that I may have it. I know she would be upset about me having unprotected s*x and everything. I don't know what to do. Please can anyone help me.

NO RUDE COMMENTS OR ANYTHING...THIS IS SERIOUS!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Yes this is very serious.You are playing russian roulette with your life.Get tested and get some condoms.Good luck,but wise up.

Answer 2

Well, just consider this a lesson learned. Unfortunately even if he were to have told you he did get tests done before, the fact remains that we just don't know everything about our sexual partners pasts, at least many people don't. These bumps and discharge you're mentioning are a sign of an std, or vaginal infection/ irritation. You need to stop having s*x, let your partner know about what's going on, and demand that he get tested himself. You also need to get an immediate appointment set up with your gynecologist to be diagnosed.

Answer 3

Firstly. Stop having unprotected s*x with some one that you don't know if they do or do not have stds or not. Secondly, go and see your docter. Ask them to take a look and tell you what it might be. You doctor wont tell you your mother if you do not want him/her to.

Answer 4

You should really get checked out.  Even if it means going to a free or discounted clinic.  Bumps are never a good sign.  And an abnormal discharge on top of that definitely means you have contracted something.  You should get this taken care of so it does not cause any further problems.

Answer 5

Depending on your area, find a Planned Parenthood local to you.  They will do all of the STD testing for free.  Doctors will not tell your parents if you do not give them consent.  Remember, we all make mistakes, big and small.  Don't beat yourself up. Good luck, sweets!