Serious question my girlfriend is contemplating suicide?

Question

i love her to death, i care about her so much, everytime she is upset she either cuts herself or says that she wants to do herself in. how can i help her with her emotions

Answer 1

Hey listen buddy, do you understand why premarital things can mess you and your girlfriend up pretty bad?.. try not to make the same mistake again.. now what you need to do is STEP UP AND BE A MAN, Go and talk to her about what she feels and tell her everything is completely fine!..

Now, to help her with her emotions, you need to cheer her up, buy her some lovely flowers, or give her a meaningful big loving hug!.. Tell her some jokes or something of the like to ease her emotions.. Now you have to take FULL Responsibility for her, You are her MAN, and you need to take care of her like a MAN would!.. If you had made her pregnant and she feels depressed from that, tell her EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT, tell her IF THE BABY IS BORN, YOU WILL TAKE CARE OF IT, The worse possible thing you can do right now is just to stand there and watch her kill herself, if you do that, it is no worse than murdering someone.. ITS EITHER NOW OR NEVER, Go and get her happy and excited for the baby!.. If you had made her pregnant, you will have to be her husband forever.. but you can discuss marriage after.. Go To Church!.. Bring her along too!.. Go to a Christian Retreat for a week!.. Have a good connection with God and have him forgive your sins!.. Go Adios!.. The time is now!.. go to her!.. Goodbye and God Bless!!

Answer 2

Do not try and help her by yourself. Need to tell her parents if they are a part of her life and don't keep it hidden. A childhood friend of mine shot herself in the head on new years eve 2007. If you think so that it is serious enough to post a question about it you need to get her professional help.  

Answer 3

I'm sorry to tell you this darling, but you can't...she is the only one in control of her own destiny and happiness..she has a self-hatred or perfectionist problem and you can;t change that...

She needs some real psychological help, the cutting is just a way of showing how much she hates herself, wants to punish herself and be in control of the pain that is inflicted to herself, a guilt release mechanism. . And she needs some self esteem help.

You can't take this on, and the more you allow her behaviour to control you, the worse you are going to feel. You love her, and I am glad, she needs a lot of love, but she can't feel it, because her self hatred/self rejection is actually pushing it away. Don't wear yourself down trying  to make her happy.

Talk her into getting help.

I hope you and her end up with a great future together after her treatment.

Mel

Answer 4

you should be with her right now, if shes serious and you cant be w ith her, call the police. dont take any chances.

Answer 5

Take her to a therapist and tell someone closer to her so that they can take care of her if you can't.

Answer 6

She sounds depressed. Ask her if she'll go to the doctor for antidepressants and/or if she'd go see a therapist. Offer to go with her for support. Ask her to confide in you. Apparently something is upsetting her. Maybe something in her past? Say things like, you're there to protect her and/or you want to help her through what ever is making her so sad. If nothing you say or do works. You might have to get her friends and family involved. These websites may be able to help you more. Just keep trying to help. Staying with her, you'll prove that you love and care for her. Suicidal people need to constantly feel loved. Best of luck and don't lose hope.

Answer 7

Well, first I'd figure out how big of a threat it is. Has she thought about when, where or in what way? If the answer is yes to any of these, it becomes more of an actual problem. The more yesses, the more likely it is that she will actually do it.

Then I'd go here. It seems to be a helpful website that can give you some more clues as to what to do. http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/whattodo...

The best of luck to you and your girlfriend.