Serious question plz help?

Question

i had pains in the lower region of my stomach.

i went to the doctor and she gave me a vaginal exam where she stuck her finger up there to feel my ovaries.

it hurt alot considering im a virgin.

but im wondering if it will still hurt when I DO have s*x?

Answer 1

i would say so yes

Answer 2

It's a little different because during s*x your body hopefully is "ready" for it and it shouldn't hurt.  But for some people the first time hurts a bit because it's hard to relax-very nervous!  The best thing you can do for yourself is wait until you are older and really ready, be with someone who means the world to you (and visa versa) and equally important make sure you use a condom.  

Take care:)

Answer 3

It probably will.  Most girls don't fully prepare for s*x first leading to some pain.  If you know ahead you are going to have s*x, get your guy to finger you and help stretch your v****a over a couple weeks.  If done properly, s*x can be painfree the very first time.

Answer 4

it will be uncomfortable the first few times.... it was more painful when the doc did it, cause you were already in pain, embarassed, and not sexually aroused....also you probably were a little less receptive to having someone put something in there since you are a virgin so you were clenching a bit..... you werent as relaxed as you would have been at home with your boyfriend or husband donig that to you, it makes a huge difference...

Answer 5

Most likely because it'll be your first time. Good luck, hope I helped.

Answer 6

It probably will not hurt when you have s*x as long as you are prepared.  It tends to hurt when you're tense.  The v****a is basically a tube of muscles, and when you're nervous, especially when you're nervous about your v****a, those muscles get really tense and that can make even a finger feel painful.  So when you're at the doctor and feeling all nervous, or if you're really nervous the first time you have s*x, you can experience some pain.

When you're sexually aroused, your v****a's muscles will relax and prepare for s*x.  There should be minimal pain, if any, when you first have s*x as long as you've spent enough time getting in the mood (this is called "foreplay" and it's an important part of s*x for women to make sure their bodies are fully prepared and relaxed, so don't skimp on the kissing and touching before s*x!)

The first time I had s*x, there was a really quick pain that was barely noticeable.  It hurt way less than getting a shot from the doctor and only lasted for about a second.  Then it felt great!  So don't worry.  :)

Answer 7

There is always discomfort the first time you have s*x but if it is with the right person then they will be gentle. What you are feeling is the stretching of your vaginal walls and with time...and repeated practice you won't stretch anymore and it won't hurt at all.

If you are really into it the first time then you may not care at all. My advice is to find out how you like your clitoris to be played with and encourage your partner to play with it before you have s*x and then you take over when he is ready. This will most likely take your mind off of any discomfort you might feel the first time.

Also some feeling for your ovaries is a lot different than having s*x. I'm a mother of two and when they check your ovaries is always painful...even after having two kiddos. :(

s*x is a great thing but wait until you are ready and have a partner who you know will be gentle, understanding, and patient.

Answer 8

most likely

Answer 9

The first time you have s*x it will be a little painful yes but after doing it a couple of times it will stop being painful. It's only sore because nothing has been in 'there' before but you get used to it.