Seriously annoying friends?

Question

So I've had these two friends for a while. When I first met them they seemed really cool, but after the school year ended they started hanging out with each other a lot. They basically look like the same person now, they are constantly passing judgment on me and talking about me behind my back. They don't like it when I hang out with my other friends and they get mad when I choose to hang out with my other friends. They're constantly complaining about how horrible they think they're life is because their parents wouldn't take them to Hollister when they asked them to. ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY! They think they're life it so horrible when they have some of the most perfect lives I've ever seen. They have become so fake and I don't like it. I have a class with the most annoying one and she calls my name and waves at me every 5 seconds. They're just too clingy. They act like they own my life. Sometime I do things for them and they act like I'm supposed to do it. They don't realize that I do it because I'm they're my friends. I thought about just telling them about it but they overreact to every little thing and I don't feel like dealing with that. Any advice?

Answer 1

i absolutely HATE girls like these. they are so PLASTIC and especially ones who are obsessed with hollister and abrecombie and all that. if i were you, i'd dump them. seriously.

just confront them about it and how they are so plasticy and how they dont "own" you and all that. and if they overreact, then ignore them and if they try to call and all that just ignore them and hang out with your other friends.

girls like that are not worth it and arent true friends.

hope i helped - nataliee

Answer 2

If you have to work hard to keep them as your friends then they aren't worth it.  Call it bad vibes.

True friends are fun to be with and not annoying.  True friends don't make you feel insignificant.  True friends don't pick on you or your other friends.  And true friends are people you truly enjoy being around.

I say stay cordial with them start to slowly move away from them as your main friends.  If you break it off to abruptly they will be your worst enemies so, make it a slow break so it is more of a "moving apart" and not a true avoidance.

I have a friend where I had to work on the friendship and it was stressful.  Now, she is out of my life and I am more confident and happier because she was all about drama and all about trying to cut other people down.  She was always the one in the right and it almost became too much for me.  But now we don't hang out as much and I have more friends and because most people didn't like her anyway, they were just afraid to speak up or tell me because they thought we were great friends.

Good luck.

Answer 3

You're probably at that age when friends who hang out with each other a lot tend to look, act, think the same. Once they start discussing controversial topics together, like talking behind your back, it'll get even worse because their opinions will become the same. Maybe it's best to hang out with friends that don't annoy you as much. It's difficult because during these times, friends are mainly based on proximity.. distance is the major factor that makes friends. Wait until you get to college, you can actually meet classmates that you want to be friends with.

Answer 4

Me too my friend called me a bad word and no one believed me when I told my other friends, and the friend with her when she said that pretended not to know. I was so angry and sad all those friends believed her instead of me and I was innocent. IN the end the girl who called me the bad word made a piece of paper that everyone signed saying that they will not be my friends anymore. Well s***w them I didn't need them anyway I made new friends after being a loner for a while but they were genuine. I'd just ignore them you'll get new classes next year. Be the strong one and walk away.

:)  

Answer 5

Try talking to them again and maybe giving them space or don't hang with them for a while.