Seriously i need help,i'm a college student?

Question

I like my college and i study well,but recently i get low grades,why? because i've had a hard break up with the man i used to love,one more reason which is my mom pushes on me very hard because i'm not that good student anymore,i don't want to seem like i'm giving in but unfortunatly i no more feel like i can study in this kind of envirnoment that my mom makes,if you can't help me then who should i ask for help??its serious

Answer 1

well you need to get over the break up. time heals all wounds. if you're seriously feeling blue then go to the doctor and they'll give u some antidepressants

Answer 2

try moving into an apartment or try studying at the library if you live at home.  Try talking to your teachers as well.  While they may not be super sympathetic to a break-up story, they can point you in the best direction. They can tell you how to study for their exams and if they know you are trying, they are more likely to help your grade.

I lived at home and did community college for a semester before I went to a full University. Getting out of the house is one of the best things I could have done.  Not because I don't love my parents or want to see them, but because I have the freedom to study when and how I want, and I feel like it's my job to Make-it-or-break-it. It's up to be to be responsible for myself and my grades.

Answer 3

Ha First give importance to your studies than anyone.You have good capability of understanding and learning the subject.So,Discuss problem with your mother and seek her help.Share your view with others then you will definetly get good ranks like in past

Answer 4

Time to develop some independence from your mom.  If you absolutely have to live at home, try sharing less information, since you know how she will react.  My parents didn't know my grades once I got to college.

Answer 5

at the college you can see a counselor for free.

try taking a new type of class

try changing your major, or rethinking your career path

join some extra activities to lift your spirits

dont drink

just work diligently

change schools if necessary

Answer 6

Talk to your mom about how you feel about school and your emotional stage if your close to her. She should be able to understand you and help you through it. Other than that, I say you talk to a friend about your problems and come up with a few ideas so that you can feel better and bring yourself back from the stress/ or whatever you are feeling.

I wish you good luck and hope everything works out.

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Answer 7

dont get dishearted with your mom's behaviour. you should take your mom's saying positively.if she says you u can't do anything u should take it positively and prove her wrong and prove yourself by becoming once again a gud student and topper of ur college. the pain which u got is tolerable because god never gives a person the pain that he or she can't tolerate. it is my personal believe on god . all the best..................

Answer 8

Do they have some kind of counseling at your college.  It sounds like you need help to sort things out in your head.  You should get back to being a good student.  It's just taking you some time to get over the break-up.  I'm sure your mom is worried about you.

Answer 9

did the breakup with the boy happen at the college you're going to (does he attend school there)? i would simply talk to your mom before you do anything else. tell her how you feel about the way she pressures you... try to explain to her you have things going on and college is getting harder and tell her that all her pressure isn't helping you instead it's just making you more stressed out. your mom sounds like a big problem in all of this, so in my opinion you have to at least try to confront the problem and fix it before you start looking elsewhere for serious help.