Seriously involved but have a crush on someone else?

Question

It has been almost a year since me and my boyfriend have been together. Now all of a sudden I have a crush on some guy at work. The worst part is that he is realising that and he feels the same way. I really love my boyfriend and we have been through a lot together and I dont want to hurt him. But then again, everytime I see this guy I get butterflies on my stomach, if i dont see him or when he isnt around, i really miss him. What does this mean and what should i do?

I have been working this guy since January and this has never happened before. I am so confused and stressed. HELP!

Answer 1

It sounds like you have a crush and that is totally normal.  Sometimes when you are in a relationship for a long time you miss the excitement of something new.  I wouldn't worry about it and I wouldn't do anything just let things happen whats meant to be will be.  Trust me the grass is NEVER greener on the other side.  A crush is just a crush don't lose someone you love and have been with for a while over nothing. Try not to think about it so much you will make into something bigger then it is.  I was in your same position last year and boy was I stupid I actually thought the guy I had a crush on was worth it and left my boyfriend of 10yrs needless to say it was a big mistake thank goodness I figured it out quick and was able to work things out with my boyfriend.  My crush was also a guy I worked with I think there is something with people you work with because you spend a lot of time with them.  If anything just be his friend but be careful.  Good Luck I feel your pain.

Answer 2

A year isnt as long as you think it is

dont waste another year thinking of some other guy

Answer 3

The same thing happened to me about a month ago actually. I had a boyfriend, but I had had a crush on another guy. I ended up going out with the one I had a crush on. It really depends on what you really want. Maybe make a list of the good and bad things of each of them and compare? It might help, but I'm not sure. Follow your heart! =)

Answer 4

you don't truly love your boyfriend,

b/c if you did you wouldn't have a so-called 'crush' on this other random guy @ work!