s*x, power and control..?

Question

Does anyone else really like guys who are controlling??

I really like authorative guys, who are not intimidated by me and are not afraid to be rough during s*x. I love being spanked by guys, that's hot. I remember one boyfriend did it randomly during s*x when I was on all fours and it got me so excited. I liked watching him do this in the reflection in the window because he looked so in control of me. I also like when a guy holds me down during s*x.

Answer 1

God when I hear a woman say things like this it gets me hard.

Truth be told, I'm not that dominant of a man. I'd like a woman who likes to dominate me too. Still, hearing a woman say things like this is incredibly hot.

I think there are quite a few women (AND MEN!) who feel this way.

Answer 2

I understand. I can be a very controlling female, and it is SUCH a turn on when the guy I'm with has me actually submitting. I don't like it too rough, but I love it when he's controlling everything we are doing in bed, and I kinda feel like I don't have a choice, he's going to hold me down and do me however. (OBVIOUSLY i do have a choice, and he'd never in a million years to anything I didn't want) but just the idea that he's just takin it....very s**y! he gets turned on when I do the same to him, too...

Answer 3

Some times.... its all in a desire... some people like things differently.. as long as the guy knows limits and our not being abused... I only like it during s*x..

Answer 4

Actually, I really dislike authoritative guys. They're usually sexists (or at least closet sexists) and don't often have much to offer intellectually. I looked back at my history with guys and found that I'm most attracted to very thin guys. Maybe I'm subconsciously avoiding the ones who could take me down.

Answer 5

its common for girls not to respect themselves......

ur a m*******t......... its equaly common in both genders, i saw it on a survey in a couple books...... guys just hide it more

EDIT: oooooooh, i thought u like being hit both sexually and outside of bed...... otherwise thats ok, like i said ur a m*******t, im a sado m*******t, that means i like both being dominated in bed and dominating the girl in bed