s*x,& relationships?

Question

Why do Women lead guys on, then deny them everything they've promised? for example; so far every woman I've been with has said" I'll NEVER cut you off from s*x as long as you're faithful. B.S. All of them have! It's just a matter of time, once they think you're not going anywhere, they cut you off. What are my options? Keep in mind, I'm not a cheat! I've been in this relationship 6 yrs.

Answer 1

Well, exactly for what you’ve said here… your relationship of 6 years seems to go nowhere… no real commitment… and I guess she is simply bored about it.

Don´t forget that most of the women still expect to get married and even more after being committed already in a serious relationship of 6 years!!!

Think about it… you do not cheat on her physically but maybe you cheat on her psychologically… which means that she feels that she is wasting her best years without receiving anything for it… (No wedding ring).

I am sure she has the right age to think about a real home, children and family, but you still want to run free.

So this is why she is bored… she is afraid to loose her best years.

Answer 2

Maybe the type of guys like you....want to be baby'd

forever....remeber it was not that long ago...a male really

had to.... cut the cake.....Be the Man.....Swing from Branch

to Branch....Fall on his knees ..... to get any of his womans

favours let alone the BED THING !

NOW ....you spoiled rotten lazy , selfish ....mummys lads

want the works with sugar on top and refuse to Commit , i

wish my grandmother were alive and chase you around with

a rolling pin ! .......Wake up and Grow up.....after 6 years you

cant give her more ? ....more people should be saying whats

wrong with you.

I suggest , you go bake cakes and sit at home with your

bear, beer, and your buddies and leave women alone.

Answer 3

Have you considered that perhaps it's not that "they think you're not going anywhere" and it's that the passion has left your relationship? When you do have s*x is it the same routine again and again? That's what tends to happen in a long term relationship.

If you're not happy with the situation then tell your partner. Unless they're psychic they're not going to 'fix' anything if you don't tell them that it's 'broken'.

Saying that if they would give it to you then you're left no other option but go elsewhere is bulls***t and a cheap way out, regardless of what you actually do it's incredibly immature to think that way at all.

If you want to be more physical with your partner then initiate it in a way that SHE will appreciate. As far as I'm concerned you're being selfish by talking so bitterly like this on the internet to strangers but not bothering to talk to her.

I know from experience that the ONLY time I've ever stopped being physical with my partner, even in a long term relationship, was when they were not long attractive to me or if they didn't bother to put in any effort to please me when we did do it. It's a two way street so talk to your partner.

Answer 4

Maybe she' cut you off from physical pleasure because you've cut her off from an emotional or spiritual pleasure. Don't get angry and blame her right off the bat, try and put yourself in her shoes, because unless you figure out what she really wants, you'll never be able to get what you want.

Answer 5

Its something you should really talk to them about. Maybe you needa make the first move? Maybe they dont feel like theyre being swept off their feet anymore and things have just gone casual, try setting something up so they come home to something really romantic? Maybe itll evolve into something bed related which in turn might lead to you guys having that spark flare up again and will get that sexball rolling again LOL Thing is, sometimes relationships sorta settle after a while and not having s*x as often is common.

Answer 6

maybe you're not a cheat. but what if she's bored?

6 years in a relationship? that's admirable. it must be special (i hope) so try to work something out.... try "talking"....

I've never been in a relationship that lasted more than 14 months. but in my own experience, guys felt way too comfortable and i had to find someone else that is fit and up for s*x every day more than once a day!

Answer 7

I say, if you're unhappy, communicate with her.  If things don't change, leave.  You don't really have much other choice.