s*x Dreams...Is there something wrong with me?

Question

Ok well i hear about ppl have s*x dreams and like asking how they can make them stop. Well it's the opposite for me. I want to have them...so is there something wrong with me? How do I make them occur more often? Should I think about it before I go to bed? Does anyone have this same prob? I feel bad like admitting this a little right now but like it feels like my exscape since im a virgin. So what is your advice (i can take critisisum)

Answer 1

As you lay in bed, think about something you find s**y. It can be anything at all.

Concentrate on the thing, weave a fantasy around it.

You find guys smoking hot? You think about an attractive guy smoking, throwing his cigarette down on the floor and then proceeding to have s*x with you.

It's very simple.

Answer 2

Do you realize that you have opened yourself up to Satan and his demons when you allow this to take place.  My advise to you since you ask for it is to ask God's forgiveness and ask Him to free you of these demons in Jesus name. God have mercy where you will have mercy.

Answer 3

Don't worry your pretty little head about it.

Answer 4

its not god some ppl die from it how old are you by the way get married like at 23 to 25 years of age you know

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with you for not having s*x dreams.  BTW, you could be having these dreams and simply not remembering them since we do not remember most of our dreams.   It may be that your unconscious knows better than you do that you are not ready for s*x.  You should listen to your dreams and not rush things.  You will soon enough have such dreams.

Answer 6

I can see you could feel about some of the criticism (but remember, you said you can take criticism) but on your question, it is not uncommon or bad to feel that way. It feels good, and no one is getting hurt, so why should we feel bad about it, ha.  I would assume your bladder is full when you are dreaming those kind of dreams. It's because there are some nerves (connected to the sexual nerves) that are getting affected. It would be great if we can control our dream, at least a lot of us are getting laid safely. lol...  What you can do is concentrate on your lucid dream, it's a way of some how being able to control the content of your dream sometimes. Once your able to be fully aware of your lucid dream, you might be able to divert your dream to how it should be. It won't be exactly, but close to it. Drink of lots of water. When you are feeling you need to go but still can hold it, turn over your tummy and continue your sleep - it works for some; works for me sometimes.