s*x Question??

Question

OK im a virgin and i want my first time to be meaningless and i want to be drunk because 1. i think its embarressing and 2. i heard it hurts like h**l I realiz this sounds horrible but is it that bad???? Also i dont want to tell him im a virgin! Is this really bad ??!

Answer 1

i have lost my virginity and it doesnt hurt and his were pretty big but i dont thin k u should be drunk cause then u will forget about it and not treassure the beautiful momments  =/

Answer 2

Wow, I don't think I've heard that in a while.  But uhh. If you think it is embarrassing to  have s*x then maybe you should wait a while.  I mean you really shouldn't want it to be meaningless.  Think it through before you do anything... But if you do, you should tell him that you are a virgin cuz then he might take it easy on you and not be all crazy aggressive unless of course that's you want... Anyway yea... Tell him that you are a virgin if you are going to sleep with him, and don't make it meaningless cuz it should be special...

Hope I helped ^^

Answer 3

You should lose it to someone special. You'll regret it if you lose it on a one night stand or something.

Answer 4

Thats a dumb *** idea stay a virgin and dont have s*x tell your mature!Thats a good way to get HIV or pregnant you numb nut.

Answer 5

The first time you have s*x, you want it to be with the guy you love, and one you want to remember it with. You sound like you just want to loose your virginity, get it out of the way, but in the long run... that's a decission you'll regret.

Answer 6

It does hurt, but don't have it be a drunken meaningless tryst.

At least make sure its someone you trust, and if you tell him you're a virgin, he'll probably be gentler and it will hurt less.

Answer 7

there is a movie called the O tapes that you should watch it will teach you a lot and change your mind about certain things

Answer 8

it depends on who you are, it didnt hurt for me the first time, but it did for some of my friends. Personally I wouldn't agree on you being drunk the first time, even suggesting that seems like your not ready for it. Wait till you find someone you love, it will be more personal and you can be open with him about it.

Answer 9

ok first of all i dont think you are evan ready for s*x. you should not be drunk while having s*x you could get pregnate and why wouldnt you want to remember it. yes it will hurt the  first few times but you will get over it i mean everyone does it and it dosent hurt that bad. and you should tell him that you are a virgin. and it shouldnt be meaningless to you i think that you are not ready at all and you are not doing it for the right reasons soo dont

Answer 10

AHHHH, the makings of a s**t!!!  Believe me, when he sticks it in, he'll def know you are a virgin.

Oh, eventhough you want it to be meaningless, it will def. affect you.

Answer 11

sounds kinda hoeish ur first time is "supossed" to be meaningful and very important that sounds kinda S****y not offend you.

but it hurts that bad depending on you hymen size n stuff

im a virgin n i kno when i wanna lose my v-card its gonna have 2 be the best thing in the world

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Answer 12

do it for somone special and don't be drunk it doesn't hurt

Answer 13

This is  kind of sad, what incredibly low self esteem  you must have.

1. "i think its embarressing ": No, s*x with someone you love is one of  the most amazing  experience that a human  being   can have.  

2. i heard it hurts like h**l: Not necessarilly, every  female is different so every females first sexual experience will be different.

Also i dont want to tell him im a virgin!: Oh honey, if he loves you, if you are the  girl that he wants to  be with in the long term he may  even consider it a compliment that  you waited so your first time would be special.

Seriously, your attitudes towards s*x  needs major adjusting....

Answer 14

Your 1st time should be special and you should remember it. If its with someone you care about then you won't be embarressed. Yes it does hurt but the pain goes away.

Answer 15

Being a virgin is no embarrasing just because your friends are not doesn't mean anything since you want to be drunk these are a few consquences

1. you might end up prego

2. you might become the biggest s**t in town

3.you might catch an std

if you are drunk you dont know whats going on and whats happening just wait till your married and another you heard it hurts like h**l. some might be uncomfortable and since you dont want to tell him you a virgin he might hurt you and you dont want that. be smart and think!! being a virgin is special so lock it up and dont give away the key usless your married and in love

Answer 16

The first time having s*x isnt as bad as you think. And wanting to be drunk the first time is terrible. The first time is supposed to be special. Why dont you just have your first time with someone else who is having their first time? It hurts a little but you get used to it and it only hurts like the first couple minutes. You shouldnt be scared and you should want to be drunk mostly because you wont remember anything and thats just wrong.

good luck.