s*x With A Girl Without A Condom ??

Question

Well I Had s*x With My Girlfriend The Other Day And We Have Been In A Stable Relationship For About A Month Or Two And She Has Only Had One Previous Partner In Which She Has Had s*x With I Was Just Wondering About The Chances Of STD's And Aids Please Tell Me Because Its Kind Of Been Worrying Me And By The Way She Has Not Got HIV Or Any STD's That She Knows Of

Answer 1

get tested, its the only way to know!

Answer 2

The best thing to do is for both of you to go to a clinic and get tested for all these tings, the tests are blood tests so it should not be embarrassing. - At least that will put your mind at ease.

But stop having unprotected s*x.

Answer 3

Why are all of your words capilitized? But, anyway, she should just get checked.

Answer 4

Get tested. She could have them and not know about it.

You don't want Mr old Wolly falling off now do we?

Answer 5

You sound too young to be havin s*x. Anyway any s*x without a condom you have high-risk of getting stds. The only way you can find out if you have stds is going to the doctor or clinic and get tested.

Some stds other than hiv and aids, arent curable either and can cause death in some cases. Your girfriend cant know for sure if she has anything or not unless she is tested.

Just because she has only been with one other person does not mean she couldnt have contracted something. A virgin can have s*x for the first time with 1 person, but that one person could have 10 stds hes carrying around, she wouldnt know.

Get tested, and use a condom regardless if neither of you have stds. for these reasons:

1. You cant be sure someone is faithful or telling the truth

2. Unplanned pregnancy  

Answer 6

if she doesn't have any, then she can't give them to you.

if she doesn't have any that she knows of, then she should get tested, and so should you.

pay attention to the difference in those two statements... "that she knows of".

STDs don't just appear, they are spread.  In order to catch one, you must have a partner who has one.  If neither of you have HIV, then getting AIDS is not possible (at least from that sexual interaction).

I'm dismayed at the level of Health Education in this day.  I learned all this in public school, but nowadays, they just don't teach this anymore.  Its sad, really.  I teach infection control for local Fire / EMS agencies, and the amount of people who don't know the basic concepts of communicable diseases is astonishing.

Answer 7

That is bad, if you don't wanna have a baby.

Answer 8

This site gives away free condoms. I've tried it and it works great

Answer 9

The only way to know what your status is would be to go in and get tested. Please keep in mind that not all STDs are included in the routine STD testing process and many of those don't always come with signs OR symptoms.  

Answer 10

HIGH RISK...your shaft will fall off

Answer 11

definitly get tested be safe than sorry!

Answer 12

You appear to have contracted a rare STD which causes you to inappropriately capitalize every word in a sentence.

Seriously though - the chance of an STD is low, but - much like pregnancy - you only have to be wrong once.  Have your doctor check it out.  If need be, ask her to get tested; if your relationship won't handle that, you're not close enough to be having s*x.

Answer 13

u shouldn't be asking this question on line ask your doctor

Answer 14

........is a VERY, VERY stupid thing to do!!!!

Answer 15

That she knows of. You should both get tested before you have s*x again

Answer 16

You are worried because you and your girlfriend did not go for HIV or STD tests before having unprotected s*x. The fact that she told you by mouth that she never had such diseases before should have not been enough since you are not certain of the medical status of her former partner. To stop your soul from unnecessary worries, together go for STD and HIV tests right away.  

Answer 17

Well if you've been with her for a few months and you haven't seen any signs of her having an STD and you don't have any problems so far then you should be fine but if it is really bothering you why don't you let her know and ask her to get tested and just so you don't make her feel bad why don't you let her know you just want both of you to be safe and know for sure and do it together so she doesn't feel bad about it  

Answer 18

Erm yeah and she may be pregnant now?

Answer 19

In future wrap it up in a condom then you should be protected against STI's and her against pregnancy.

No excuses to all out there who have unprotected s*x, WRAP IT UP!

Answer 20

Stable relationship for a month or two? Still not long enough to risk her getting pregnant, is it?  

Answer 21

Apparently the idea didn't bother enough to not have s*x with her when you didn't have protection. Why the concern now?

And I hope she's on the the pill as well. I'm guessing you probably don't want to be a father at this point in time.

How many partners have you had? If she's not your first, have you ever been tested?

Condoms aren't 100% fool proof. And you can still give and receive STDs through unprotected oral s*x as well.

Do you trust her? Did she have unprotected s*x with the last guy that your aware of? Is she, or has she expressed concern, that she might have an STD? If so, has she been tested for them?

If your that messed up about it, talk to her about your concerns, then talk to her about the both of you getting checked out.

Answer 22

Yes you could of got something or you could of give her something too.

Its best if you both go have youself check out!!!

Answer 23

if she had it would be known by now