s*x and dating, your thoughts please...?

Question

How long do YOU wait to get a little/give in? What's the magic number? As in, how many dates to bring that baby into full bloom fruition?

Answer 1

id say get to no each other 6-8 weeks bfore hand bt only that if u r seeing each other at least 3 times a week... u dont want him thinking ur easy and he can get u any time

Answer 2

It all depends on what you are looking for! I've been with girls in just 4hours from meeting! Because their are people out there that you may have a strong attraction to. But if you are looking for something long term, you should definitely hold out a while. maybe  two months or more.  

Answer 3

Im 53 and happy to say " I don,t care anymore ". If i get it i get it if i dont i dont . The thrill is gone. No more acting like a dog in heat . I am truly free mind body and soul . You will only understand that when you reach that point in your life .

Answer 4

I don't think there is a magic number, i really believe it depends of the 2 people involved because everyone is different.

Answer 5

The baby into full bloom fruition? lol ok well I think it really depends on the the ppl dating. My husband and I  waited a month but I don't no how many dates it was...and why would you give in to something.. then it makes it seem like you didn't want to do it in the first place lol...  

Answer 6

Haha. I like your question. lol

I met my fiancee at work and just like a month later (we officially weren't dating yet), I spent the night at his house and we had s*x (he was my first). I felt ashamed about it because I'm not a 1-night-stand kind of girl. I woke up the next morning next to him and he looked at me and said the same thing. We started dating from then on and didn't have s*x again until about 4 months. By that time, our relationship was stronger than ever because we knew what we both wanted out of the relationship.

So, I say around 4 or 5 months. Don't rush into it and don't let him pressure you. And it's completely understandable to not want to do anything until 6 or 7 months or even later. It all depends on how you feel about it. I hope I helped! :)

Answer 7

it depends on how much of a mega s**t you are, you however sound like a s***k waiting to bloom into her full sluty potential, so I say go ahead, s***w his brains out, there will be plenty more guys coming your way.  

Answer 8

If you are so horny...do it. If you want a long term relationship...wait as long as you can.