s*x and parents..caughhht! :S?

Question

My bf and I have been dating almost 9 months, after 6 months of dating we decided to engage in s*x, i got on the pill, we use condoms all the time. A month ago one broke, but I didn't get preg. Anyway so we decided to use more lubricant..well we left it up in the window upstairs in his room..his step mom found out..and wont let us go upstairs, be alone or anything. How can we get alone again? What can we do, were very responsible.

Answer 1

How can you two get alone again?  The answer is simple.....motel are always open 24/7.....it's cheap.  Also, you won't have to worry about being caught.  It's quiet, comfortable and worry free.  It doesn't matter if you're of legal age or not as long as you can stand up on your own and control your life.  Have a nice life, have a nice s*x!  

Answer 2

so u just think its ok to have casual s*x ?? wat ev i think you should be very careful because one of these days your gonna get prego email me when you do!!!

Answer 3

Unless you can afford to raise a baby for at least 18 years, you're NOT being responsible. Do you and your boyfriend both have reliable full time jobs? If not, I don't blame his stepmom one bit. She's doing what any good parent would do and likely saving you from years of heartache and h**l.  

Answer 4

k remember that having s*x is special and a privilege.... ill admit it i had s*x at the age of 17. so kids will do what they want.... if you have a car? go in that that's what i did. but remember to always use a condom. and yes its not the best place to do it in your parents house kind of weird and creepy.... don't do it in public cause if you get caugth there will be alot more trouble ahead of you.

Answer 5

can you guys move out? if no, tough luck.

Answer 6

how old are you?

Answer 7

maybe respect her wishes you are living in her house ..or he is what ever, yeah i guess you should sit down and all have a talk about it, you can tell someone all u want not to have s*x but nature finds its way lol.i would talk to her about it and maybe find a solution, at least you are being careful but careful doesn't always matter the best way to not have kids is abstinence and I'm sure that's not the first or last time u hear it baby doll!!

Answer 8

how old are you for starters. because my best advice is to move out

Answer 9

you and your bf ned to sit down with both of your parents and discuss that you love, and respect one another and that you feel ready to have s*x. this will show them that you are being mature about the situation and are being safe. tel tem that you are being responsible and th you would like them to resoect your decision. if they dont and you are of legal age tell them you are going to do it regardless of there decision. but make sure you are careful.  

Answer 10

How old are you though?

Answer 11

try the woods!!! i hear it's great place to have s*x. but mosquitoes are horable. a little info, try to hide the tube of lube.  windows not the best hiding spot around.  may want to try the kitchen counter next time.  it may work out with nearly the same result.   if you want to know a good spot try, in the spice draw if your parents never cook.  trust me  it works with great results almost like watching a cat on a hot griddle!!!!(FUNNY AS h**l)

Answer 12

If you have to do it at your parents house then you are obviously too young and they have every right to tell you you that you can't have s*x in their home.

Maybe you should move out and get your own place if you guys are so grown up.

Answer 13

Well, it's a good thing that she found it, because it's irresponsible and childish to have s*x when you aren't capable of raising a child or seeing a doctor for a disease.

Answer 14

Don't be in his room. Or your room. Its not as comfortable, but go somewhere else-a park, or even a restroom somewhere.

I like to go to the handicapped restroom at the grocery store to be with have s*x. He sits on the toilet-you get the picture. Choose a bathroom somewhere that no one goes to.

If you get creative, you can have s*x almost anywhere. I like to do it somewhere sort of risky, where there's a SLIGHT chance of being caught.

You can go behind the bleachers somewhere if its dark. Actually, you can have s*x almost anywhere if its pretty dark.

Answer 15

What the..? Are you of legal age? If so she can't stop you, so speak to her about it and voice your opinion. If you aren't of legal age, it's understandable that your stepmother doesn't want youse committing a crime, 'cause if you get caught, the court won't care whether youse were responsible or not, just whether the act actually happened.

Answer 16

um go somewhere else like say youre taking a walk and bang like in an alley or at night in the park lol when theres noboby there.

Answer 17

Well this is a tough one. How old are you anyways? First of all, Being responsible is important and I commend you for taking the proper steps in that! Now , as far as his step mom finding out....You guys should respect her. Weather she knows you are responsible or not, if she doesn't want you guys having s*x in her house then you should respect that. If you are adults, you can figure out ways to be alone elsewhere. If you are younger.....maybe you should just relax a little. There is a time and place for everything and if you cant find a time and place for something maybe it's not meant to be?!

Answer 18

Sorry, but you shouldn't be left alone.  I don't understand how you can say you are *very responsible* while having s*x when I'm sure if the next time the birth control fails and you get pregnant you or your long time boyfriend of 9 months have jobs that will pay for a baby.  JMO

Answer 19

You need to tell the parents that you were being responsible and that you feel that you are adult enough to make this decision.  If they still don't agree, then you just need to respect their wishes (or go out to dinner and do it in the car - bad as far as respecting parents but a workable solution).  

Answer 20

doubt your ever gonna be alone again.