s*x at the age of 56 how much if any?

Question

how much should a man have a month if any with his women? you tell me because my wife is complaining i don't give enough what's wrong with me

Answer 1

I think as long as you want it and still can do it. As for your wife problem,  reading books about how to arouse a wife may help. Just an opinion.

Answer 2

just do it .. she will love you for it ..see your doctor mate ..

Answer 3

If you are having problems performing, you should see a doctor about getting something to increase your libido.  You should also have a prostate check while you are there.  That can cause this problem also.  My ex husband was having that problem and ended up catching a prostate problem that could have turned into cancer, so don't hesitate to be checked immediately.

Answer 4

get it as much as you want.  s*x is healthy

Answer 5

If you met a hot 25 year old chick how much would you have with her?  You don't want your wife because you don't love her any more.

Answer 6

there is not a set amount that a specific age group should have it.  This all depends on the individual and his ability.  Some men can manage more frequently than others.

If she is your wife for a long time she should know what you are capable of, and should not push you beyond your limits, maybe she is hinting its time for the little blue pill.

Answer 7

Actually, being a female of the same age, it could be that her s*x drive has heighten over time.  This may sound crazy, but females only get better with age in most things that they set their minds too, and this is one of those things(smile).   So, you may need to check into a means of satisfying her needs to keep her from thinking out side the box of the marriage, OK.

Answer 8

Everyone is different.  There probably isn't anything wrong with you.  My best friend and her husband have s*x about 3-4 times a week, and he's 55 (yes, she shared TMI..lol).  I've known men who are 45 and don't want s*x but once or twice a month.  It really does vary by person.  Try purchasing some toys and using those as an alternative if your wife is interested in s*x more often than you are.  There's more than one way to skin a cat, ya know.

Answer 9

This is a hard question to answer.  There are many reasons and if you love your wife, none of the reasons have to do with lack of love for her.  The first thing a woman thinks is she's no longer attractive, you don't love her, you're having an affair..and the list goes on.  She may even begin to feel insecure.  If you have gotten to the place in your life where you just don't feel like making love and seldom even think about it, you're not abnormal.  Hormones in men are affected just as they are in women.  If you don't feel like s*x, possibly try to just hold her and cuddle..allowing her to feel loved.  Tell her it's not her, it's just that you don't feel like it.  What she doesn't understand is by complaining she is putting stress on you and that just makes it worse.  Possibly you should have your doctor do a hormone work up on you.  You may find your testosterone level is low, which is common as we age and this definitely affects the s*x drive and other things as well.  I think it would do you & your wife a lot of good mentally and physically to find out if there is a medical reason for your lack of drive.  My husband and I are going through a similar situation and his testosterone levels are low. I am posting a website below that has some good information in it..good for you and also for her.(don't be offended by the ED portion of it. It is good reading)  Good luck.

Answer 10

You should give as much as she wants, at 56. That's an important time for her, at that age, to be supplied sexually. Consider some Viagra if you are low on motivation, and depending on your relationship, take charge. If you are agitated or irritated and she wants the goods, consider taking charge of the situation and giving her a spanking. 56 is not too old. 70 would be pushing it, but not 56. She'll appreciate your interest. Learn to use a safe word to stop the action so you can be sure of your actions if you are in doubt. Just say "honey this is our safe word and if you want me to stop the action say the word".  

Answer 11

do you have ed? some guys slow down at that age. it's normal. and some women slow down at that age too. my parents are in their late 50's and they do it a few times a month. sometimes they act like teenagers around the family.

Answer 12

don,t give or take over dozes

Answer 13

Some people lose their s*x drive or it slows down as they get older. Maybe you are bored with the same routine and you need some variety to spice things up in your marriage. You can always talk to you doctor and he can rule out any medical problems and maybe give you some advice.

Answer 14

nothing is wrong with you you have gotten older thats all

im only 17 so i have no idea but my parents are almost 50 and they only do stuff once a month if that..... but then again they do hate eachother lol

so i would say dont worry about it

there is nothing wrong with you and thats all there is to it

Answer 15

3 times a week