s*x before dating???

Question

Ok, please no lectures, I am 20 for goodness sake.

But there's this guy that I kinda like, we never get to hang out much but when we do we end up talking about everything, he randomly texts me or facebooks me. Basically exhibits possibly likeing behaivor...So we were at a party and I was pretty intoxicated, he was a little and we talked all night, ended up going out to his car and had s*x (I am not a girl who sleeps with random people) and talked some more. So we go to different colleges but we've been casually facebooking for the last two weeks, and then last night he texted me good night.

So if is a real relationship possible or just a shallow s*x filled crappy mess?

Answer 1

Coming from a guy you better talk to this guy really soon about this. The fact that you can talk so much together is the first sign of something special. So I guess you want to clear the air before he starts to think you are just in it for s*x or he starts to think that himself.

I defiantly think a real relationship is possible. I was a bit a of bad boy at college and I would not stay up all night talking to a girl I didn't really like.

Good luck to you.

Edit:   Serviggodsalone your answer really doesn't help anybody. I'm sick of naive people passing judgment on others lives without knowing the full facts. You people really annoy me. Just because they had s*x before 'commitment' doesn't make this guy a bad person and it doesn't mean these two cant have a special relationship in the future. And on that note. If they want to have guilt-free casual s*x like wild rabbits more power to them.

Answer 2

difficult to say

some guys will scheme and play games to get s*x

Answer 3

I'm a man,you were seduced, its in our genes, or in this case  yours. your just loose and easy.--we like girls like you.-- but we are fascinated by ladies .and would never try and s***w them in our car.

Answer 4

it sounds like relationship material! you guys seemed to have good chemistry even before having s*x.

Answer 5

Seems like hes a friend with "benefits" sorta. Or hes a cool guy whos had s*x with you and still wants to be friends. Its not a real couple relationship, but you can make it more serious by actually dating for real. your decision girl.

Answer 6

Ya Baby

Answer 7

judge all situation. he had feeling for u.and then when u slept with him it confirm ur feel for him in his eyes. and now that different schools. he just trying move the relationship in better avenue. so card ur to play