s*x before marriage - Do you agree/disagree and why?

Question

Just wonderered peoples reasons for agreeing/disagreeing with SBM..

Dont be shy, say what you truly think

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Answer 1

Shouldn't do it. Intimacy is something that is shared between a man and wife. If you have given that part of yourself away then you can't be intimate.  JMHO

Answer 2

i dont believe in hopping into bed with everyman you meet, but i do believe that having s*x before marraige with someone you deeply care about is fine.  

Answer 3

It doesn't really matter, if you're alright with it its fine :)

Ben

Answer 4

I think its a decision that only the individual can make based on there morals and beliefs and no one else's.

For me I do not agree with s*x before marriage, I think we should only have s*x with people we love and if we love them truly we will marry them so why rush it, got the whole of your life to have s*x with the man you love, I would rather make the most of everyday I had getting to know him in the beginning before bringing s*x into it.

Answer 5

No s*x before marriage.

We live in a society that says if consenting adults want to engage in sexual relations then it is no one's business.  There is only one circumstance that I will agree with that, and that is if the woman is sterile....

No matter what precautions are taken, intercourse can result in conception.  When a child is conceived, it should be in a home with a mother and a father.  The decline of the family unit is causing major problems in our society.  There are all kinds of statistics that prove that two parent house hold are better for a child than  being raised by a single parent.  I'm all about looking out for the welfare of children.

Also,  many young women get involved in sexual relations before they truly understand the emotional consequences of their actions.  Guys are not so emotionally affected, they just think it's great to be getting some.

That's my two bits worth if any one cares.

Answer 6

Agree...W SBM

I got married Young and with my only boyfriend and s*x partner (at that time) you will always (and people will lie if they say they don’t) wonder how will it be with some one else?

but most important go with what ever is best for you. With your beliefs...

:)

Answer 7

i agree s*x 24\7..

ma'fact i wanna do it with u right now

Answer 8

agree.altho s*x isn't the biggest thing in a relationship ,it is a big part of it.and if couple arnt compatible in that erea believe it can lead to infidelity and resentment later on in relationship.

Answer 9

I say wait. You have to rest of your life to enjoy s*x, why not wait for the person that you truly love to make it that more special?  

Answer 10

Disagree because you can't find out the benefits of reserving it in the context of marriage if you use it now. Isn't that sad? You get one shot and to waste it in an innapropriate context permanently bans you from enjoying it the way it was first intended. s*x before marriage destroys your ability to enjoy s*x IN marriage. You either get 25 years of squandered s*x and 50 years of h**l or 25 years of wise abstinence and 50 years of pure joy!

Answer 11

I agree of having s*x before marriage. because s*x is also part of the relationship... We have seen many cases that people get divorce are due to their s*x life.

Even thought i give lots of credit to all the people who keep their virginity until marriage.

Answer 12

I do believe in s*x before marriage.

Would you buy a car without driving it?

Would you buy a pair of shoes without trying them on?

What if the two of you are not compatible?

Look at all the people in the 50's who got married just to be able to have guilt free s*x.  Most of them are now divorced or very unhappy.    

Answer 13

I think you should ride the pony before you buy it.