s*x-free relationship?

Question

Is it too wrong to deny s*x in a relationship? The last one I was in we only had s*x twice and I cut it off cuz I felt like we were in the wrong and he did some wierd **** like in the middle of s*x tried to close legs and keep ******* like it pleased me when I push him off. I just don't want a sexually relationship cuz most of the guys I meet wants me to give it up and depend on them only to prove that I can not trust/depend on them. I'm only 22 and I don't believe sleeping with every guy I date. This guy was just a s***w up, but is it okay to ask this from future bfs?

Answer 1

nope, definitely not. if youre not comfortable having s*x, then dont - its really just as simple as that.

im 20, been sexually active for a couple of years now but im about to be 21 and ive recently decided that i dont really want it right now. like you, i dont think that i have to sleep with every guy i date - i think if theres that chemistry there or its something i want to share with him, then i will. but if not, then i have that choice not to.

i think its a good idea that you do let your future bfs know that you arent a virgin, but that doesnt mean youre gona give it up to him either. let him know that when youre ready, if you are ready, then you will - but until then, if then, he'll need to be patient.

i hope that helps! good luck!