s*x hurts?

Question

ok i had 3 different sexual partners and with all 3 it hurts

im 16

people say about s*x feeling good but it frankly it doesnt

what can i do to make s*x feel better and stop it from hurting

Answer 1

you're too young. your body isn't ready. its trying to tell you that but you're not listening. unless you're mentally and physically prepared to have s*x, its going to be uncomfortable...thats why rape hurts. so think of it this way, unless you really want it, it'll feel like rape.

lubrication and communication.

let these guys know what you want and how you want it, slow and easy at first, if they aren't willing to respect what you say, get out of there fast. they aren't worth your time otherwise.

Answer 2

How about stop having s*x? Being 16 and claiming you had 3 different partners is nothing to brag about.

Answer 3

Well, I think that you can't truly enjoy s*x unless you are in a committed loving relationship.  My best advice for you is to STOP HAVING s*x!!!  I promise you one day you will regret sleeping w/ so many different partners!  

Think of it like this...one day you will meet the man you are going to marry and you will have to look him into his eyes and tell him who your partners were and why.  It's not easy saying "just b/c I wanted to".  Trust me...I know that feeling and it sucks!  You will one day regret every person you have been w/ other than your husband, we all do!

Good Luck!

Answer 4

simple answer, your not ready.

i lost my virginity at 14 and i can tell you now that i DEFINITELY wasn't ready for s*x until i was AT LEAST 18!. by that time i had a baby on the way and had been with my partner for 4 years. when your young subconsciously you know its wrong so you tense up and this is why it hurts. When you mature you feel sexier and less ashamed, it becomes a natural act not a rebellious one if you know what i mean.

second answer could be you are suffering from hormonal problems such as Endometriosis.

symptoms include***

severe period pain

back pain during menstruation

pain during sexual intercourse

changes to periods, such as a small loss of blood before the period is due (spotting), irregular bleeding or heavy periods

infertility

painful bowel movements

difficulty becoming pregnant

fatigue

Answer 5

SLOW DOWN......... and your partners p***s are probably to big for you and that's why the s*x hurts for you. your probably not stretched far enough yet. you are only 16

Answer 6

Why is everyone telling her she's too you ?

She's 16,

That's the LEGAL age. . . .

I lost my virginity when i was a lot younger then that and now, at 15, I'm sexually active on a regular basis ( with my boyfriend )

Perhaps your not getting horny enough before you start having s*x.

Try building up your sexual desire by foreplay.

Make sure your wet before he enters you.

Answer 7

well.. what hurts about it?

maybe the guys you are with are too large

Answer 8

i would say that this is your body's way of telling you to slow down and stop sleeping around at this age! you're too young to fully experience what s*x is about and it's better to wait until you're older anyway. i really think that you'll be able to enjoy it better then. but if you dont agree, get on birth control! go to your local planned parenthood!!

Answer 9

u should wait till ur older. When u have someone u r really devoted to and love mentally AND physically

Answer 10

slow down for one...16 and 3 partners?  wow...

Answer 11

Im not an expert otherwise id be a qualified agony aunt but ill try help best i can

i would say the main reason could be tht ur not lubricated enough so you could try tht either by fore play before hand or use a lubricant if this still doesnt work to make s*x more pleausreable then id suggest going to a health clinc as they could probs give you more advice.

s*x may be hurting for you if your tense for any reason.

Answer 12

wait your 16 and 3 partners already

wow

umm i think you should be careful about aids and hiv sleeping around with so many men

but if you want it to stop hurting oil up your crotch and have the men your sleeping with go slow and tell them when to go fast

Answer 13

Maybe it's your body trying to tell you something....

Wait until you are OLDER....

You are still a kid. Don't grow up too fast, you can never go back

Answer 14

the more you do it the less it hurts but yea slow down i`m only 15 but still i`ve only done it witrh one guy

Answer 15

umm sorry i think ur waaay to young to be havin sexual partners...but i will answer ur question..id does feel good after uv done it for a while (if this is the first 3times uve had s*x then it will be uncomfortable)....also, u should ask ur doc because u may have picked somethin up that is causin painful s*x..