s*x..husband...advice?

Question

I am seven months pregnant and no longer feel like having s*x...however before hand hubby and I always had great s*x...so now he still wants but dont know what to do...also he is big like 9" and very fat around so I am worried about after I give birth..any suggestions...ps dont like giving oral any more either.

Answer 1

I feel you!!! I was the same before and during my pregnancy. I just would reassure my husband that after the baby was born it would get better. lol BUT it didn't till my son was about 6 months old. Now its just as good maybe better then before my son and he is 11 months.

The only thing I didn't agree on was I caught him looking at p**n, BUT HEY its better then sleeping around on me. Guys need that in there life so maybe try a hand job. I know its hard when you just aren't in the mood for any of it. But try and do it for him.  

Answer 2

If you don't feel like having s*x, tell your husband you aren't in the mood and he's going to have to wait until after the baby.

As far as it goes after the baby, once you are fully healed, his size won't make a difference.  Just don't do it too early.  

Answer 3

try to at least give him some once a week. he is a man, so that means that s*x is a necessity. you might be pregnant, but you still have to comprimise to keep your man happy.

Answer 4

I would just talk to him and let him know how you feel. My husband and I had a very active s*x life before we got pregnant. We would have s*x at least 4 times a week and a lot of the times more than that. I am going to be 30 weeks tomorrow and we haven't had s*x for a month or two now. The last time we did it was very painful for me and it really wasn't enjoyable at all like it usually is. I just simply explained to him that my body is changing a lot and I don't feel s**y. I went from weighing 115 to 140 lbs, and don't really want to have s*x.

He has been very understanding and doesn't even ask me for any kind of sexual favors.

We are still very close in other ways, such as just cuddling on the couch after a long day, and giving back rubs and things that aren't sexual.

I don't know what s*x will be like after we have the baby. I'm nervous about that as well, (this is our first baby), but I'm sure if you explain to your partner that you want to take things slow at first, he should understand.