s*x? is it ok if i'm 11year's older then my girlfriend?

Question

her mum&dad don't like it when i buy stuff for her. she is 22 &i'm 33

Answer 1

22 and 33 are both consenting adults.  So what you should really be asking is if s*x is suitable given your relative maturity levels and the strength of your relationship.  

Answer 2

If she's okay with it! Her parents have to rights to "decide".

Answer 3

Legally thats fine, but I have to wonder what the h**l she is doing with you when she is that young and you aren't

Answer 4

my boyfriend is 33, i am 21. we have been together 2 years. I must say,l never would have thought id be with a guy 12 years older than me. But u cant help who u fall in love with...and it works fine. Of course my family we're a bit strange with it at first, but i think thats because my family knew him before i was with him, and the fact that he is older than my 26 year old brother who use to go to watch football with my boyfriend (my boyf used to look after my brother when they were younger!) then it was hard for them to accept at first. but after about 2 weeks, they new we wern't just messing around and it was a serious relationship. and now they love the fact that we are togther. he is a part of my family and i am a part of his family. Age really does mean nothing. If u love her, dont let her slip through your fingers, u could end up regreting it

Answer 5

It's fine.  My husband is 9 years older than me and it works just fine.  Don't worry too much about it, you're both old enough to make your own decisions.

Answer 6

Normally I would say that since you're both adults, you can do whatever you like.

However, if she is still at the stage where what her parents say affects your relationship with her in a meaningful way, then yes, she is too young for you. Once she has learned that her life is her life, and not her parents', then she will be old enough for you.

Answer 7

Same situation (sort of), I'm 22 & she's 34. Don't get me wrong, she one of the sexiest women I've ever laid eyes on, but I've told her already (or at least tried to tell her) that it isn't about s*x. I've actually fallen in love with her & I'm just scared.

I know that love has NO boundaries (age included) & I really do love her, but I'm really freaked out at the fact that I can't let go of her.

Answer 8

It depends on her age,  no that would not be weird  mom and dad probably want their daughter with someone her age

Answer 9

uhhh,it depends on her parents.i would definitely say no.

Answer 10

Is there an age limit on love?

Answer 11

your both legal go for it and have fun but be safe      

Answer 12

As long as she's 18 or older it's legal and you two can do whatever you want, as long as she says yes. She's old enough to not have to listen to her parents if she doesn't want to.

Answer 13

My 22 y/o friend just married her 42 y/o fiance this summer, so your age difference seems rather minuscule in comparison. You should strive for respect from her parents, but technically you are both adults and therefore are allowed to make your own decisions. In regards to the s*x part of the question, I hope you're both in love if you're at that point in your relationship.  

Answer 14

I would say as long as you love each other, there isn't a problem with the age. If you and your girlfriend don't have a problem being together with the age difference, then I think yours are the only opinions that matter.