s*x only hurts when we DON'T use a condom?

Question

we've being having s*x for a very long time now, and for about the last 7 months s*x has been very painful, every time, and on occasion has caused me to bleed, but only if we DON'T use a condom, when we use a condom, there is absolutely no pain. what could this be?

Answer 1

its in your head... good goin

Answer 2

Condoms are usually lubricated. Maybe you aren't wet enough, naturally. Use lube.  

Answer 3

sounds like you need some k-y jelly honey... as for condoms are lubricated..

Answer 4

hmmm, if it wasnt for such a long time, Id suggest it might be a yeast infection developing, they often start with pain.  But in 7 months, youd know, lol.  Using a condom and not are definitly two very different feels (I prefer without, but I also get pain from s*x, just because Im built small and my guy is well endowed, though its obviously not enough pain to make me give it up!).  Have you considered you might have a s***n allergy?  Sometimes hormone changes can affect things.  The blood may be just from little tearing from accomidating him if he's larger or if youve had rougher or longer periods of s*x.  Also he may be hitting your cervix.  That used to not bother me but when Im feeling sensitive inside, it can quickly become very uncomfortable (usually this happens in the doggy position). I also had a friend who had the same problem and found out it was from him actually hitting her cervix till it was "bruised".  

Answer 5

I forget which one it is, but there is an STD (maybe more than one) that causes pain during s*x... so you might want to get checked! I learned about that in my health class last year.

Also, do you use lubricated condoms? Maybe your body isn't producing enough of its own lubrication for you to have s*x comfortably, but you don't notice when you're using the lubricated condoms.