s*x presure help ??????????????

Question

even though my boyfriend says he will wait for s*x i always feel pressure about s*x from him like hes like i want to pick out Lingerie for you and you wear it and he ask me what under wearI'mm wearing cuz i had sun burn and told him my legs hurt and i was in bed. He also says i want to see you in skirt so bad wear one for me. I know i shouldn't feelpressuredd but i do so bad i feel likeI'mm not ready to even do anything with him i am 19 but still he is older 25 we been going out only 2 months but still somethings he says like even though he says hes joking still he also says i was like how long would you wait and hes like depends how much i loved the girl he shouldWaitr out respect not be like that it made me upset. should i break up with him i mean its make me so upset

Answer 1

Break up with him. You shouldn't be with a guy who makes you uncomfortable or upset.

Answer 2

if you feel uncomfortable, maybe you should consider breking up. u should never feel pressured to do anything that you don't want to do. it doesn't make sense being in a relationsship if you feel uncomfortable.

Answer 3

Talk to him about it, tell him you feel pressured. He may not know he's doing anything wrong.

But if he keeps at it, he's probably not worth your time.

Answer 4

if he is trying to push u in to doing things ur not ready for and u tell him that and he still does it if i was in ur position i would say either wait for me or i may call u when i feel i am ready for the relationship u want

Answer 5

Its obvious that having s*x is at the top of his priority list.  I assume you've told him that you're not ready.  If he cared more about you than he did getting some, he'd stop pressuring you and and not keep thinking of new ways to get you to sleep with him.

My husband and I decided to wait until we got married.  We dated for 2 years and made it to our wedding night.  I know not many people do that, but still, it is possible to wait.  The right guy will be willing to wait until you are ready.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 6

he is a guy and hes probably just having a hard time controlling himself. forgive him if he slips up every now and then. as long as he's not making you do something you dont want to do or making you feel bad for not having s*x.

Answer 7

you should talk to him. tell him how those comments he makes make  you feel.

don't dump him...not yet.

if he uunderstands u and repsects u, he'll wait.

(:

if he doesnt, dump him.

you deserve a man who respects your decisions

hope this helps

=D

Answer 8

Thats a pretty big age difference. I dont think you should be with someone that makes you feel that way. I think yoiu  should just talk to him!

Answer 9

break up with him.   He just wants to have s*x with you because you are 19.  25 and 19 have nothing in common.

he just wants your body.

Truth from a good guy to you!

Answer 10

Absolutely, I think that you should break up with him if you're feeling that pressure. If you're determined to wait (and good for you for that!!) then breaking up is in your best interest for the long run. It would only take one time of weakness for you before it happened. Don't impose that possibility on yourself by staying with this guy. Good luck!

Answer 11

Um yeah if he doesn't respect you why would you wanna be with him?

Answer 12

Don't succumb to pressure if you don't want to do it. At 25 his hormones are raging and I feel for him, but in the end the choice is yours.  

Answer 13

its just clothes its not like he is askin u to get in bed with him!!!!!

Answer 14

If you feel any pressure you should tell him that exactly. You should sleep with him only when you're ready not just to make him a favor. If he doesn't accept that, then yes, you may break up with him.

Answer 15

He's a guy, he obviously wants it. It's not like he's throwing you down and forcing it upon you...but if you're unbearably uncomfortable with it then just break up with him?