s*x question!!!, Help! please???

Question

Hi, well i have so many questions about this but oh well I'll limit myself to only one question that keeps bothering me....ok so my bf and I had s*x, and well I sometimes tell him what is the use of using condoms if he holds and touches his p***s before touching the condom and putting it on? but he forgets that sometimes and well Ii guess nothing really had happened because the condoms I always choose have spermicide ...but well it's been twice we use regular ones just with lubricant and i just realized this today! and yeah he did touch and put on the condom after touching his p***s (he applied lubricant to his p***s) ...well...he didn't put the condom on immediately after touching his p***s... he touched a lot of things after that like...stuff..and me of course lol, and he also cleaned up with hands full of lubricant with a towel before actually putting the condom on..well I just want to know if I'm just being paranoid or if it is that really dangerous touch your p***s than putting on the condom just like that....Also,I do not take contraceptives since my doctor told me it would be dangerous for me because of some health issues i have, so also having s*x for us is something we don't do much (once a month or twice) so we get busy in our stuff like work and school 9I'm 21 btw) but oh well can someone tell me if that I asked you about is really dangerous? Thank YOu.

Answer 1

how else is he supposed to put it on without touching anything? its fine and its different then not wearing a condom because he has pre-*** that can have sperm in it and the condom prevents that from touching you. Even if he does not ejaculate inside of you, you can still get pregnant from pre-***. Its not like hes rubbing his juices all over the condom before you have s*x. im sure that he is just as concerned about not getting you pregnant as you are.

Answer 2

i do not have experience but a friend told me about this story in a magazine about a VIRGIN who was PREGNANT!!!

what happened was she was sat in a clinic waiting room and the guy who was in that chair before her was leaking sperm cos he is constantly erect.

she sat down and the sperms that got on the chair actually got her pregnant!!!!!!!!

BUT THIS WAS JUST A FLUKE COS THE SPERM SHOULD HAVE DIED OUTSIDE THE BODY

Answer 3

i don't think so

Answer 4

Its not dangerous..sperm will die outside the body..if he happened to have any on his hands..

Answer 5

have you ever taken s*x ed in high school?

Answer 6

uh ok????

Answer 7

That's a little bit paranoid. Unless he's like...masturbating, or has been aroused for a long time, then no sperm will probably be a problem. Everybody has to touch their p***s to put a condom on :-/

Answer 8

well...if he already ejaculated before putting on the condom, i think that would be a problem.  but if he didn't you'll be fine. always use  the spermicide condoms. it's your best bet.

Answer 9

You are Fine....Have s*x more!