s*x question: Newly enganged but I am in need of help!?

Question

I recently got enganged and my of course my fiance was the first man I have had sexual intercourse with. We are trying to have kids because we have known each other for 10 years. We are financially stabled and have everything set.

My question is, is the sperm supposed to come back out like a discharge, or is there something wrong with me? Can I still get pregnant even is his sperm comes back out when I stand up? Whats going on?

Answer 1

its normal for his and ur sperm to come out and the lucky ones swims fast inside of you and stays there....but if ure trying to get pregnant, enjoy the s*x and stay in bed! do not stress about it and do not get up! i would have s*x before sleep, and still lie down with legs up, put pillow underneath and sleep rest....and hopefully you get pregnant! good luck!

Answer 2

Dont' worry that is perfectly normal.  The sperm is supposed to come back out of you.  My suggestion is once you have had s*x make sure you put a pillow under your butt and lay like that for about 20-30 minutes after s*x....this will keep it in you longer and when you do stand up not as much comes back out.  GOOD LUCK and congratulations on your engagement and TTC.

Answer 3

It's normal. U can still get pregnant.The little guys will swim up to your eggs b4 that extra stuff falls out.

Answer 4

Dont get yourself worried its not all the sperm that goes inside hense the advice that you shld lay on your back (with a pillow on back)15-20 minutes after s*x to allow sperms to keep flowing in , also allow yourself to have an o****m so that your cervix will help out by also pulling  some sperm inside so just avoid jumping out of bed just after s*x to allow a smooth flow

Answer 5

I thought that was weird too when my husband & i were trying But yes, all the extra 'goop' comes out But dont you worry, what needs to stay in stays in :)

Due with my little man nov 28th from whatever made its way up lol

Answer 6

Yes don't worry most of it will come out.... Try to lay down or go to sleep after s*x. Gives them a chance to kinda... swim up there.. haha sorry TMI, but yeah! Just try to keep them in there.

Answer 7

oh trust me you can still get pregnant, i thought there was something wrong too. i got engaged and was depressed thinking i wouldnt get pregnant because it all just came right back out, but i was wrong, very wrong. we tried for 2 weeks and i got pregnant. the doctor told me what comes back out is what your body doesnt have room for, after s*x your muscles are tightened and only so much can stay inside, and he said no matter how much came out at least 40% of it stayed in.

hope this helps, goodluck

Answer 8

Completely normal - the average man ejaculates more than you can possibly contain in your body . . . so the excess comes back out while many of the swimmers try for the egg.

Congrats and best wishes for many years of happiness - happy trying to conceive!

Answer 9

Hiya - dont worry, there will always be a certain amount of s***n that comes back down after s*x. but remember, it only takes 1 sperm to make a baby!

To increase chances of conception, stay laying dwn for half hour afterwards and maybe even put a pillow under your bum? Good luck!xx

Answer 10

Yes this is normal. Try to lay in bed for awhile after s*x and give the sperm time to swim up to your eggs. Try to relax and have fun. Good Luck girl!