s*x question??????????????

Question

I'm 18 and my bf is 20. I'm a virgin but he isn't. We plan 2 have s*x soon but I'm really nervous. He's only had s*x once but I'm still really scared cuz he's way more experienced even tho it was just once he did it. How do I feel more comfortable w/ him?

Answer 1

If you don't feel comfortable and can't just let it happen.. then I don't think you're ready to have s*x with him.

Answer 2

just go with it

hes done it before so he'll kno what to do

it might hurt the first time tho ( =  

Answer 3

your not ready then

Answer 4

Just relax. We've all had our first time. Yours is just right around the corner.

Answer 5

talk to him about it. tell him your scared and explain to him to be easy.

Answer 6

just go for it

Answer 7

If you are that stressed about it, I think you should wait.  

And one time does not make him experienced.  He's probably going to be really nervous too.

Answer 8

Wait until you are married, then all will be great.  It will be just you and him with no thoughts of future or past lovers.  Wait..........

Answer 9

EVERYONE is nervous there first time, you're problem has been experienced by just about everyone.

Trust me, his one time experience isn't going to make him a s*x god. He probably still sucks in bed.

So in terms of experience, it's irrelevant, just enjoy it!

Answer 10

If you don't feel comfortable with him at all, there's no way in h**l you'll feel comfortable having s*x with him.

Answer 11

I agree with the other guy . if you dont feel comfortable having s*x with him, then it's not the right time ? Dont just be like okay lets have s*x !out of no where then you'll feel really uncomfortable . just let it happen, maybe set the mood for the whole day, as in candle lights, being close [romantic things] . then it'll just happen and you'll be happy about it ;] .  

Answer 12

My honest response, would be not to plan to have s*x soon.  Planning when it comes to your first time, is possibly the hardest thing you could do.  It has to feel absolutely right at the time.  And you'll probably even find that when the time does come - even though you will undoubtedly be nervous - you'll want to have s*x, not because you said you would; but because you know it feels right.

Also; you have to remember, just because he's had s*x once, doesn't mean he has way more experience.  Yes; he'll know the general feeling... however with every person, it's completely different.  The only experience he'll technically have, is those which you will already know through your instinct.  Everything else, is learned from knowing each other.  So you are actually both on the same boat.  Just work up to it slowly.  Begin with holding each other, and kissing.  You'll both know what feels right, and when.

Answer 13

just take it slow and easy, because hes had experience he should be able to get it in so you dont need to worry about that. You may not be 'good' at it so start, so dont feel bad if you or he doesnt *** - id say neither of you will *** the first time round. Just do it again the next day and so on; practise makes perfect, then youll both be experts together!