s*x...what can i say to make her more relaxed?

Question

Well i am going to have s*x with my girl soon....and she is really nervous, she said she wants to and everything.....The other girl i had s*x with before wernt nervous and really pushy but she is different. She thinks it might hurt because of some stories her friends told her, i want to continually reasurre her but i dont know what to say..... Please tell me what i can say to help her relax

Answer 1

Tell her that if she isn't sure,

you will wait.

And yes, it usually does hurt the first few times

but it gets better.

Answer 2

all you can tell her is that you love her. (if you really do) and that if it hurts she can tell you and you'll stop (which you better) and make sure she knows that she doesn't have to. (because she doesn't)