s*x with my husband while our little daughter sleeps, is it wrong?

Question

I'm 26 and he's 29. Often, we want to have s*x at night, but we feel guilt because our 6-year-old daughter is sleeping upstairs.

Is it wrong if we make love with our little daughter at home?.

Thanks - Jessy from Wales, UK.

Answer 1

No, you've to wait till she's 18 and has moved out of your home. Or send her out to the pub, like someone else said.

Answer 2

I like how you are even considering this, most people in our society wouldn't anymore. It means you have a conscience.

Answer 3

There is NOTHING wrong with being intimate with your husband when your child is asleep at night!  In fact having a healthy marriage including intimacy only makes things better for her.  It is perfectly natural and trust me most healthy happy married couples do the same.  It is nothing to feel guilty about.  

Answer 4

no that's the only time married couples can have s*x when they babies are asleep. my husband and I have s*x when our daughter is asleep. we just make sure we lock doors so she can't walk in on us.

Answer 5

Heck no. Several couples still keep it hot in the bedroom while their children sleep. It's been like that for ages. Why would you feel guilty? It's also why many kids have a counterpart called siblings. I wouldn't have a brother to this day If my parents went against it. They'd never get a chance.

Answer 6

weeeeee im from wales

no its not wrong

shes sleeping! its not like shes in the room with you

Answer 7

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Answer 8

no, everyone does it...I prefer to wait when they are sleeping...I feel weird if we are doing it and they are playing in their rooms or downstairs watching tv....

Answer 9

No- I think that's what most people do.  It's fun to have s*x while no one is home, but when you're a family with young kids, that's just not that common.  We usually just take the proper precautions of locking our door to make sure there are no interruptions!

Answer 10

Are you kidding? You can have s*x with your daughter in the house.  

Answer 11

h**l no !!!!!!! you go for it girl , the only chance you two get to be alone is when she is asleep so make the most of it. I used to feel the same way hun but in the end came to realise that wether im watching tv , reading  or havin s*x with my hubby my kids are still safe,warm and fast asleep and have no idea what im doing!!

p.s) im from n wales lol xx

Answer 12

How would this be wrong? This is how EVERY normal couple with kids does it. Unless your rich enough to get hotels a couple times a week and a babysitter, your bedroom is where the lovemaking takes place. Do lock your door though. They have scary timing when they need a glass of water and that can be quite embarrassing.

Answer 13

Of course it's not wrong.  That may be the only opportunity the two of you get for any alone time, so make the most of it.

Answer 14

terrible

much better to do it while shes awake and in the room

im joking

of course its not wrong

Answer 15

I'm pretty sure this is how many couples do it that have children. We have a 4 month old baby and the only time we get "us" time is when he's sleeping. Don't feel guilty.

Answer 16

LOL just yesterday my wife and I had our daughter (7) watch a movie on the tv while mommy and daddy "talked" in the bedroom. It's ok. Just Do It

Answer 17

It is not wrong.....do not feel guilty it is natural to have s*x with your husband at anytime day or night... enjoy your relationship

Answer 18

You have to take advantage of any free chance that you and your husband have.  I don't see anything wrong with it.  As long as you don't get caught, you are good to go.

Answer 19

Everybody else is doing it love. everybody.

Answer 20

ummm, h**l no!  Just make sure she's asleep, I walked in on my mom when I was a kid, and mine have done it to me.  Be prepared, teach them to knock early.  

Don't feel guilty, that's how she got made.  it's a fact of life.

It's not like your watching p**n with her sitting at the kitchen table, or doing it while she's in the same room.

Answer 21

yes she could wake up and hear everything wait until she is at school or have her stay over at a family members home for the night

Answer 22

No. If you waited for a time when your daughter isn't home you would never have s*x! Married people have s*x, it's normal. Just make sure your door is locked so your daughter can't walk in on you.

Answer 23

go for it. Once you have kids you have to be creative if you ever want to make love again. My 8 year old was concieved on the couch while my son was riding his bike on the front sidewalk!! My almost 3 year old has taken to staying up until the wee hours of the morning. A few times this last week we have left him in the living room watching Noggin while I went to "snuggle with daddy". It was hilarious when he came and climbed in the bed and wanted under the blanket...we had on one t-shirt between the 2 of us. Luckily my son is not even 3 and did not even notice.

Answer 24

well...i think it kinda okay. its okay because you want s*x. ive had the same problem.Im 25 and my bf is 26.my bf said want to have it? i said yeah but what about my little sister? he said idk.then i started to get that good feeling and we started doing it all of a sudden.when i woke up,it felt good that we had s*x cuz it was fun,but i felt horrible that my 10 year old sister was there.

It's bad cuz if they have a bad dream or need something from you,they come to your room and would see you doing it...so if you do it,do it quietly.

Answer 25

Absolutely not.  What are your other options, waiting until she goes to college?  Lock the door, relax and enjoy.

Answer 26

Jesse,as long as your daughter's sleeping is just fine,but to me it would be morally wrong to have s*x while children are present.even if I have visitors staying for a short term at home I wouldn't do it out of a sense of moral.if your daughter isn't sleeping and not in your room,OK

Answer 27

NO, not at all. Gotta do it sometime, right? As long as she's asleep, what's the harm?

Answer 28

Why would you feel guilty?

That's a very strange for you to ask this question.

Have some hang-ups about s*x do ya??

Oh, and to answer your question, no, it's not wrong so go get laid already.  Jeesh.

Answer 29

absolutely not. the two of you need to be having s*x together. your daughter is probably never going to know that you are having s*x.  

Answer 30

Just don't flaunt it as children can be sensitive  to seeing mum and dad at it.

  Enjoy yourselves.

Answer 31

I can understand why you would feel like that but no you are not doing anything wrong at all..in fact the opposite is true !