My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2.5 years and love each other very much. We've been living together now for a couple months. We moved to a new city and he took a new job that he is often stressed over. Our s*x life seems like it is almost non-existant now. I have tried to talked to him about it, but he doesn't like to talk about it. He says he is just really tired and just doesn't have any energy after returning from work. We are still affectionate with each other, hold hands, cuddle he calls me sweetie and tells me he loves me everyday, so that aspect of our relationship is still very much alive. He swears that nothing else is going on (ex.cheating) I trust that he is telling the truth, but every time I try, i pretty much always get rejected. It's like he only wants to have it on the weekends!! I don't know if your age has something to do with it, I am 23 and he is 29.
This is my first relationship where I have actually lived with someone, and am just wondering if this is the norm with relationships after dating for extended period of time. Like i said we love each other very much, but I am a little unsure of what to think about all of this... I am trying to be understanding but the tension is beginning to build between the two of us because no matter how much I bring it up, he gets more & more upset and it feels like he just doesn't care about what I have to say. Because HE is tired and HE doesn't feel like it, he is forgetting that he is not the only one in this relationship!
Some serious & realistic advice would really help : )
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