Sexual Offender Limits?

Question

My ex boyfriend who is now 18, 17 at the time committed statutory rape against me, 15, and got me pregnant. To say the least, he's been a dic* about it all, saying he's not going to support me, he hopes the baby dies before he is born, and has gone to the extent of trying to have some girls fight me, and hit me so that I would lose the baby. My legal guardian said she wants to press charges for statutory rape on him. My question is... how bad would this effect his life, I know he would have to register as a sexual offender, but im not sure how bad that'll s***w him up? should I just leave it alone? is child support enough h**l for him?

he has no job, no money, no phone, no car, no house, no life. Nothing. He is very addicted to meth, which NO, I did not know at the time we were together, and that was the reason we broke up, I didn't want to be involved in that. So please don't give me h**l saying "you slept with a low life" because I apparently already know.

Answer 1

Trust me if  you press charges you will get the money YOU deserve who cares if anything  happens to him he will just keept doing that over,over,over and over again.

obviously he doesn't care about you!

then why should you?

think about it (:

Answer 2

You should of already went to the police for rape. You ask is his life going to be hard..  yes it is. He will abuse more girls because you didn't do anything. He needs to be locked away.

Answer 3

As a registered s*x offender, it will stay with him for life. As the creep he appears to be, that won't be long.  As a meth addict{ should you decide to keep your child,] you can probably boot him out of your baby's life.  Which is probably a good idea.  I would suggest you file charges, maybe he will get lucky and be forced to straighten out is life.

Answer 4

Proving rape is likely to be difficult.  You acknowledge he was your boyfriend and it is likely that any alleged assault occurred a while ago.  Bringing criminal charges late in the game is not likely to be effective.  Nevertheless, it is never too late to look out for the best interests of your child.  Establish paternity and make sure this guy pays his share in raising the child; financially, that is.  You surely will want to keep him away from the child assuming what you say is true.  A real man will pay child support -- willingly or court mandated.

Answer 5

personaly this is my oppion, i would have press charges on him for rape yes it will s***w his life up but he was old enough to know what he was going and what could happen, Consent or not its still rape you were underage so press the charges and he will have to register and will get what he deserves it will follow him for the rest of his life but thats tough he deserves it.  Also you may not of thought of this if you want nothing to do with him or he has already made the choice that he does not want your child get a restraning order your child dont need him and you certainly dont.

I hope you have a wonderful baby boy im gessing its a boy sorry if im wrong. wish you the best.

Answer 6

If you can prove he is trying to make you have a miscarriage by having you beat up, I would think that may fall under attempted murder of an unborn child.  Or something along those lines.