I've had several incidents with this one (now former) co-worker. He recently moved to another department, so I (thankfully) don't see him everyday. But on a few outings with co-workers he was extremely aggressive and forward in a very sexual way. I never encouraged or invited such behavior, but I also never firmly asked him to stop.
None of his comments, uninvited back rubs (which I immediately made him stop), arm-around-my-waist, etc, happened at work. The other day, though, he came behind my back while I was not watching, as I was trying to cross a street on my lunch break, and pinched my waist.
Today something that I don't really have to describe happened involving him, which made me extremely upset because it showed he not only is a pig, but also insanely inconsiderate.
He makes me very uncomfortable, but after today's event I thought for the first time of reporting him at work.
Do you think any of this is really borderline sexual harassment or am I just overreacting
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