Sexual orientation??? help??

Question

i cannot be g*y. it's not intolerable.

since i was in kinder garden i remember having a crush on some girl than the year after i thought some boy was cute and it happens every year.i am sometimes attracted to some guys, which makes me sick. i don't want to be that person. i know it's wrong. i don't know do you choose you sexual orientation or what? i can't be g*y? but sometiomes i'm attracted against my will? i do like girls but sometimes i could have a crush on a dude? i don't want to be bi or g*y. i can't talk about this with nobody help please!!!! ( if you have stupid things to say just keep them to yourself)

Answer 1

sounds to me like you've been brainwashed by someone. there is nothing wrong with being g*y or bi.  it's just who you are, and you can't change it.  complaining about being g*y is like complaining about having brown eyes.  it's who you are and there's nothing wrong with it!

and just because you have g*y thoughts doesn't mean you are g*y. depending on your age, it could just be a phase.  everyone goes through it.  and if it does turn out that you are g*y or bi, so what! just be yourself and don't worry about anyone else.

Answer 2

it sounds to me that you are who you are and you've been brought up to deny that.

So option 1: Force yourself to because straight. Deny who you really are. Whip yourself mentally, emotionally and spiritually for the rest of your life while secretly fantasising about men while sleeping with your wife.

option 2: Ask yourself "Am I attracted to men?" honestly. If the answer is yes, its just a part of who you are. Its not a sin, its not wicked, its as beautiful as any other life.

You need to talk to someone that doesnt have a mind full of poison, someone that is impartial. Call a teen help line in your area. What country are you in?

Good luck, god bless.

Answer 3

what would you like us to say, that you seem normal.  if you're attracted to guys your attracted to them, i can't change that for you.  perhaps you'll be more accepting after you have s*x with a few guys, you might find that you like giving bj's and such.  to bad for you

Answer 4

Well, the more you think about being g*y, the more you will become of it.

There's nothing wrong in liking men. You don't have to tell anyone, just focus on the girls. And just think of the guy as some sort of eye-candy for your eye.

Answer 5

im 16 and if there is good looking guy and i respect his looks and sometimes i have those same thoughts. i would never act on those thoughts though. I only have been with girls and i plan ononly being with girls. but sometimes i also have a crush on a guy if i think he's cute

Answer 6

Everything depends on how old you are. If you're between 12 and 18, it's normal to feel like you're attracted by boys because you're still growing and discovering your sexual identity. But if you're older, you got to accept yourself the way you are.. But if you simply dont want to be like that, why would you be something you don't wanna be..

Answer 7

"The best thing about being bisexual is that it doubles your chances of getting a date on Saturday night."

  - Woody Allen

Answer 8

Crazy dude what is so bad about being BI or g*y if that is what makes you happy that is what it is . I am striaght and like chicks. There are some dudes that like dudes. find out what it is you like is it a physical attraction to them or a friendship type attraction what is it. who is to say it is wrong your parents? priest? bible? friends? It is your life if you can deal with some of these people not beign in your life or accepting you for you then go for it. see if you can see a conselor at school or at your church that could help

curtdude  

Answer 9

I know someone who is like that too, but they thought they were bi anyway.  I think it is possible to think a person of same s*x is cute but not be homosexual so i dont know

Answer 10

You might be g*y buddy. A person doesn't wake up one day and say hey I think Ill be straight nor does a g*y man wake up and say hey I think Ill be g*y. There is always the option to be g*y or bi and live a straight life and for some its worth the sacrafice.